The Who, Why, Where, and When of Toy Shopping Who buys sex toys? Just about everyone, from all demographics! Obviously a disposable income is an important part of sex toys, but I’ve known many couples in my experience who make sex toys part of their monthly or quarterly budget! There is nothing wrong, dirty, or…
Techniques To Excite Her (Without Touching Her)
“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it.” – Anonymous Sex isn’t always about the rubbing and petting – it’s about that connection, at least for us ladies. While it’s true that sex can sometimes be just about the physicality of it all, women find it easier to engage in steamy sex when they feel that they’re connecting with their partner on a higher level. We thrive off of non-verbal cues. ...
Sex Positivity Basics: Feeling Good About Getting Down
The world we live in can be very negative when it comes to issues of sex, gender, pleasure, desire, love, lust, and the human body. All this negativity can have long-lasting effects on us, making it difficult for us to enjoy sexual pleasure or feel comfortable talking about our bodies. What is Sex Positivity? While…
Sex Positions for Every Shape and Size
Tired of all those sex position guides that sound like they are meant for super models? Are you and your lover uniquely matched in a way that makes some of the standard sexual positions more difficult? Or do you just find yourself wondering “how do they do it?” when you see a basketball player dating…
Oversexed or Under-Stimulated? Regulate Your Sexual Energies Today!
Sexual energies tend to move in cycles, for both men and women. Sometimes you may find that an excess of sexual energy send you barreling forward headfirst into intercourse so quickly that you lose yourself in the moment and it’s over before it’s even begun. Other times, you may struggle to maintain arousal because of…
The Four Fires of The Heart: Loving Her Like She Needs
The libido is often discussed as the body’s internal fire, it’s heat. In different ancient health and sexual traditions, four different “fires” are identified, each associated with a different need, a specific human desire and requirement for human connection. Love requires communication and connection on several levels, which can be broken down into these four…
Pelvic Floor Health and the Happy G-Spot
No matter what your lover’s current experience with g-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, she can and should be practicing pelvic floor exercises and daily lifestyle changes to encourage great pelvic floor health and wellness. Pelvic What? The “pelvic floor” is a group of muscles within the pelvic cradle (in both men and women) which supports…
Erotic Edgework: Negotiation and Communication as Foreplay
As partner and lovers, one of the most important things we can do with our lives together is spend time exploring our boundaries to nurture and expand the intimacy that we share with our partner. Relationships are risky, challenging, even scary. But “getting to know” someone doesn’t stop as soon as you are married. It…






















