I believe that cunnilingus is the most intimate act a man can perform on a woman. When my husband gives me this gift, I can feel his love for me radiate throughout my entire body. He loves performing it, too, and it seems like he always comes up with some new trick to please me. He’s so thoughtful!
Most men I’ve spoken with about cunnilingus feel the same way as my husband. Although they don’t receive any direct sexual gratification, they find a great deal of pleasure giving oral sex to their wives and girlfriends.
Preparing for Oral G-Spot Play
Many women feel uncomfortable receiving cunnilingus because they think they don’t smell or taste good. Even if you love the way she smells and tastes, she might have a difficult time believing you. During the experience, she might be so busy worrying about her body that she’ll be unable to focus on your oral play.
If your lover feels this way, assure her that you love everything about her body, especially the way she smells and tastes. Take some time to make sure you’ve done everything you can to make her feel beautiful and special. Here are some ideas.
- Before you get started, take a shower together. Wash each other’s bodies until she feels squeaky clean.
- Create a seductive environment, including clean sheets, music, fresh flowers and candles. She’ll experience more pleasure if her body and mind are relaxed and stimulated.
- Make sure you’re both comfortable. My husband and I have found that the most comfortable position for us is with me lying back on the bed with my knees over the edge and him kneeling on a pillow between my thighs.
- Compliment her. Tell her how gorgeous she is and how much you love the way she tastes and smells. You really can’t do this enough!
When she’s ready for you to begin, don’t go for the gold. Go slow, and warm her up with my techniques for oral foreplay. Even if she has no inhibitions about cunnilingus, a slow approach will rev up her senses so high that when you do begin to pleasure her orally, she’ll be begging for it.
My Techniques for Oral Foreplay
One of the reasons my cunnilingus techniques work so well is that I advise my readers to spend a lot of time physically preparing her body. Don’t dive right in. Instead, use your hands and mouth to stimulate her erogenous zones before you begin your oral play. Here’s what to do:
- Start by kissing her and softly running your hands over her body. If she seems tense, suggest a massage. Otherwise, continue to touch her lightly, watching her body for signs of arousal.
- As she begins to feel aroused, spend a little time visiting her erogenous zones with your fingers, lips and tongue. Take your time, and mix it up.
- When you can see she’s hot and bothered, gently spread her legs, and get into position between her thighs. Gently blow on her inner thighs. This move should drive her wild!
- Next, stroke her inner thighs with the tips of your fingers. Kiss her lightly all the way up her inner thighs, beginning at her knees and working your way up. Keep your kiss light, like your touch.
- When you reach her vulva, nuzzle it a little, breathing lightly on it and touching it a little with your tongue.
By now, she should be flushed, panting, writing and moaning. In other words, she’s primed for oral sex.
Oral sex and G-Spot play are an amazing combination! As you pleasure her orally, your hands will be free to explore other parts of her body, including her G-Spot. While you’re so focused on her vaginal pleasure, you’ll be in the best position to observe her body language and give her exactly what she’s asking for.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S.: Baby, these powerful orgasms are a gift you should exchange more often as a couple. Even if she never talks about it, the G-spot orgasm becomes more and more intriguing as a lot of her friends mention it – so I want you to be able to give her that in ways no other man could! Check out my steamy program called “G-spot Orgasms Made Easy” to discover the easiest techniques to stimulate this amazing sweet spot!