What does the secret world of female sexuality look like? Do women like sex just as much as you do? Female desire can be very confusing, especially in the modern days, when movements like #MeToo create this huge discussion about what women don’t want. It can also make you doubt your every movement, every attempt to approach her in a sexy way: what if she will misunderstand?
Actually, it’s no surprise that sometimes your woman’s sexuality confuses — trust me, I’m a woman and sometimes it’s just impossible to understand what I’m feeling or what I want. Women are very intuitive when it comes to sex, but they are also limited by their own inhibitions. However, if you can find new ways of discovering her sexuality and what triggers her passion and trust, you will soon convince her to come out and play. So here are some interesting facts about female desire that may help you approach her the right way tonight.
1. You may need to adapt your sensual “repertoire”
As you already know, sexual desire is incredibly individual, even more so when it comes to women. The physical response in their bodies is driven by their hormones, and the level and mechanism of those hormones are different for every woman. Your woman can even experiment sudden changes in her sexual drive depending on her hormonal cycle. Testosterone is the main star when it comes to sexual desire, and women have it too — so there’s no reason to believe that she’s less sexually driven than you.
However, women are very different physically. Studies show that almost 40 percent of women need clitoral stimulation to be able to orgasm, while others reach the big O through penetration alone. Some women experiment climax when you perform cunnilingus, others prefer a more intense kind of stimulation.
In other words, you need to learn what your woman likes — but also learn to adapt when she just wants you to do things differently. You may discover new sensual preferences of your own.
If you want to learn new ways of activating her sexual triggers, I recommend you to check out this helpful video. Quick note: This program was NOT created by me.
2. Age is not relevant
You may be tempted to believe that women lose their appetite for sex as they age, but that is not the case. Actually, numerous studies found that women in their 30’s or 40’s are more sexual than younger women. Women between the ages of 27 and 45 reported having a lot more intense sexual fantasies than those in the 18-26 age category. You can also blame it on the hormonal changes — but don’t forget to enjoy it as much as you can. I challenge you to give her a wet dream!
3. Her clitoris continues to grow throughout her life
Yup, that’s true. After the age of 45, her clitoris can become 2.5 times larger than it was when she was 18. No wonder women can experiment stronger orgasms as they grow older. Clitoris is packed with millions of nerve endings, and the bigger and visible it is, the stronger the orgasm.
4. Ginger stimulates her arousal
If you want to get her in the mood, you might want to learn how to prepare a proper ginger tea. Scientists have proof that ginger helps stimulate her feelings of excitement associated with sex.
5. Deep penetration isn’t always necessary
Sure, it feels great to you, but she might not always agree. Her vagina is most sensitive to sexual stimulation in the first third from the opening, so try to experiment with shallow penetration or using your fingers to stimulate this area more.
6. She has a sexual bucket list
I’m sure you have a list of kinky fantasies you want to try out — well, your woman has a list too! The tricky part is to make her feel comfortable enough to share it with you. Even if she seems reluctant to trying new stuff, her imagination is definitely going wild from time to time. To see what she might be into, tell her about your own fantasies — you’ll start a sexy conversation that could lead to a whole new erotic chapter.