When you have sex with your woman, you notice, if you pay attention to her signals, that she takes as much pleasure from you touching her on the outside areas surrounding her vagina at least as much as she enjoys you being inside her and thrusting her deeply.
Contrary to the usual hearsay men rely on as they grow up to evolve from curious boys, a woman’s garden of pleasure holds a sensual geography that it’s important to explore both inside and outside. That is why a real man is the one who masters the complex of stimuli able to start his partner’s fire and make her juices flow by using a certain set of skills that separates little wandering boys from real powerful lovers.
Being a master of her vagina takes passion and knowledge and this combination has been around since times immemorial. The ancient Chinese medicine makes a connection between the vagina and different body parts and organs, similar to how the body is mapped on a person’s hand, foot, or ear. Interestingly, both the entrance to a woman’s vulva and her deep cervix area, the innermost part of her vagina, correlate to her heart. Thus, by stimulating her internally, you improve the flow of energy throughout her body, making her feel the arousal as a cosmic release of pleasure and the orgasm as a universal climax.
More on the techniques you can learn and apply in order to conquer your woman’s vagina inside-out can be found in my Vagina Masterclass program, where my naked sex instructors take you step by step through all the phases that you need to cover all the way to the peak.
Let’s take a look at the sensuous landmarks of a woman’s sexual geography waiting for you to uncover and make your own.
This is the most sensitive spot on the female body. It’s located at the top of the vulva, where the inner labia join at their upper ends. The visible part is the tiny, nipple-sized, female equivalent of the tip of the penis, and is partially covered by a hood. When aroused, it becomes swollen and erect. Part of the clit is hidden beneath the surface and extends down to the vaginal opening. Gently rub it, lick it, press your palm on it and take it between your thumb and index and sqeeze it ever-so-slowly.
Gently insert your finger until the end of her vagina, hook it on the edge and pull back towards her vaginal opening. You will immediately feel a corrugated small button: that’s her urethral sponge. Use a tickling type movement at first, just with one finger. You can add a second finger once her reactions are telling you that you are on the right way.
An urge to pee might make her feel quite unpleasant at times, but she will end up enjoying it in the end. Don’t expect her to love it in the first session, or even the first few sessions. It might even be that she’ll never like the G-Spot, but she might, so that’s no reason not to try.
Firmly push your finger directly in and up to the vaginal wall. Try two fingers as well as one. You can rub or stroke the area from one side to the other as well as using circular moves, your fingers together and slightly apart.
Build up in intensity, as it can be pretty overwhelming and intense initially.??
Directly opposite the A-spot on the rear side of the vagina behind the cervix on the vaginal wall is the O-spot, widely known as the O-region. There’s an open type of space, closed at the deeper end. Stimulate the whole area with circular rubs, back and forth strokes, rhythmic pushes and circular movements around and around between the back of the cervix and the O-region of the vaginal wall.?
On your way to stimulating the O-spot you need to go around the cervix to find it opposite. So while you’re there, go around and around the cervix a few times, applying gentle pressure as you move on. Take notice, if your girlfriend prefers deep penetration, she probably enjoys the sensation of cervical contact, and your penis isn’t the only part of your body that can reach it.
So, unless you’re a high-school boy, you’ve learned by now that fingering a woman—just gliding in and out—doesn’t do much for her. Don’t jump to penetration from the start. Learn her errogenous zones and make your way in gently and skillfully: use two or three fingers to work your way in and out, alternate your moves and make sure you’re not just going up and down. You will make her appetite go down rather than up.
Be receptive, make sure you take her reactions into account and take boredom out of the table. Creativity is key when approaching a woman’s hot zones. Sometimes surprising her by touching her spot from all angles is the recipe for an amazing orgasm.
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