When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you’re in a relationship, it’s all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner.
That’s where I come in. With insight into everything from BDSM to female ejaculation, my inclusive, deftly-illustrated sex programs are like an expert (yet relatable) roadmap to your best-ever sex life. I’m thrilled to share some of my insights with you here, especially since the holidays are fast-approaching and you’re probably in dire need of step-by-step suggestions for new and creative sex positions to enrich your sensual play. Some of the positions I’m describing here may be old favourites, others variations on classics, and still others completely new to you. Combined, they might just make for your best holiday sex yet. Read through for the good stuff.
Ask your partner to hold her legs straight, pressing her knees together (she can cross her legs at the ankles for an even tighter fit) while you open up your legs around hers. It takes a little more work to get the penis into the vagina, but then it’s a nice tight feeling – a rare hybrid situation that makes you feel incredibly cozy and snuggly with your partner, while also delivering lots of stimulation for both of you.
Anal Reverse Cowgirl
One of the most popular positions for anal sex is the Reverse Cowgirl. Not only is your partner on top and so can take you as deep as she likes, as fast or slow as she likes, but you’ll also be able to see everything that your partner does. Both of your hands are free to explore each other, so no sensation should go unmissed. To get into the anal reverse cowgirl position, lie down with your legs together and have your partner straddle you with her legs bent and turned away from you.
Life On The Edge
This position is a common favorite for both men and women, as it encourages deep penetration. Your partner should lie down on her back at the edge of the bed, with her thighs and legs dangling off. She should bend her knees and put her feet on the ground. You stand or kneel between her legs and enter her. You get a great view and control of a deep thrust. Your partner gets to kick back and enjoy. Win-win. But be careful: this position can be a bit problematic for more well-endowed men.
The Flying Buttress
This position is for show-offs. Your partner is on top but facing away from you, head at your feet, which means entry can be difficult from this angle, but definitely not impossible. You can tilt your pelvis up to help the cause and let here do all the thrusting at first, until you get into a steady rhythm, then you can switch things up and share the action. For some, this requires too much flexibility, for others this is just the spice they needed to feel like true porn stars. Plus, imagine seeing your partner’s butt moving and shaking up and down your penis. Now that’s your best Christmas present right there!
Taking The X Train
You lie on your side, resting your head in your palm, while your partner’s body forms a cross with yours (she’s on her back on the bed, her legs are up your thighs, bended at the knees, while either her butt or vagina is agains your penis). Enter her and start moving up and down. She can move her body to form an X by placing her legs on your shoulder – this variation allows for even deeper penetration, so don’t shy away from it. Try this while your lady is wearing pointy high heels, with which she can tease you in the hair and chest area – be careful not to hurt each other with this!
P.S. For more information about saucy sex positions, check out my program on the matter, Passionate Positions. You’ll find here all the inspiration you need to concoct a truly special sexual recipe for a night to remember!