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Sex Advice from Real Women

This weekend I went to brunch with a few of my best girlfriends. After catching up about our personal lives the conversation turned to sex, as it always does with my friends! One of them was complaining, “if there was only a way to directly tell men what they’re doing wrong or what I want without offending them.” Even though I talked to them about how there were ways to communicate your needs without offending, they insisted that some men would just take it badly if their woman told them what to do in bed. What do you think, guys? Are my friends right?

Based on that conversation, I decided to bring women’s sex advice to you. I’ve compiled specific sex tips from 9 real women. The only instruction I gave them was, “if you could tell your sexual partner one thing to do differently, more, or NOT do in bed, what would it be?”

“I really love it when my husband goes really slow. He gets excited and started thrusting faster and faster and sometimes that feels good, but what feels 100 times better than that is when he pulls all the way out and then penetrates me over and over again slowly. When he thrusts too fast I start to lose sensitivity, but when he goes slow I feel every bit of him enter me and it brings me to the brink so fast!”
-Kiley, 41 years old

“I hate it when my boyfriend kisses me really sloppy. Sometimes he licks and sucks all over my face. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but it just turns me off. I wish I could tell him without hurting his feelings, but how can I say that I don’t like the way he kisses?! I wish he would just pay attention to the way I kiss him and get the hint THAT is what I like!”
– Rebecca, 32 years old

“I love that our relationship doesn’t just have to be about intercourse anymore. It used to be all my husband wanted to do, but now we have a much more interesting sex life and it’s a lot more satisfying for me. We touch each other, we cuddle, we take showers together, we give each other oral sex. Sometimes we have orgasms and sometimes we just are together. We have grown even closer and it makes me even more attracted to him, even after all these years.”
– Melany, 54 years old

“Nothing gets me off faster than when my husband plays with my tits and fingers me at the same time. He starts just playing with my boobs and then when I’m nice and wet he starts finger me at the same time as my boobs are in his mouth. He nibbles on my nipple and it sends me over the edge. I can’t get enough of that!”
– Maggie, 38 years old

“I wish my husband took more time for foreplay. I know that is such a typical complaint for women, but it’s so true! If he would just take a minimum of 5 minutes to get me warmed up and touch something other than my vagina, I would be so much more interested in sex. It just seems like it’s all about him.”
– Lola, 43 years old

“I know the minute my husband kisses, hugs or shows me any kind of affection that he wants sex. I wish he would do that without hoping for something in return! When I complain he just says, it’s just that you get me so hot. Sure, that’s great, but sometimes I want affection without sex.”
– Carolyn, 28 years old

“I never thought I would like anal sex, but one year on my husband’s birthday I decided to try it as a ‘present’ for him. To my surprise, I loved it! It’s not something I want every day, but it’s become our special present sex act! My husband takes time to get me REALLY turned on before going inside. Once he does he goes really, really slowly until I’ve gotten used to him being inside me. Then I start touching myself and I cum so fast and hard. It’s amazing.”
– Veronica, 40 years old

“Sometimes my husband goes down on me and won’t let me reciprocate. I love it when he does that. No matter what I do or say, he insists on pleasing me without anything in return. When he’s done I can just lay back and fully enjoy the afterglow. The next day I can’t stop thinking about how good it was. And I always make sure to return the favor another day.”
– Carrie, 58 years old

“I wish my boyfriend would be more creative with how we do it. Instead of waiting until I’m in bed and exhausted at the end of the day, why don’t you take me the minute I walk in the door? That would make me so hot. I would feel like you just HAD to have me that instant.”
– Kim, 36 years old

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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15 Comments

15 Comments

  1. Frederick Venner

    October 19, 2015 at 10:42 pm

    How wonderful to read. Real people with real wants and desires in life. Just an absolute pleasure to know how people feel about the human commingling of sight, sound, touch and feeling.

    Thank you,
    Frederick Stephen Venner

  2. gg

    October 20, 2015 at 2:58 am

    All couples should experience an adults only couples resort like Hedonism in Jamaica and Desire in Cancun. Seeing how other happily married couples have longevity and utter and complete happiness in their marriages is nothing short of theraputic and openess in your relationship…. These places provide the arena for you to truly enjoy each other in the company of other like couples…. where you will experience ecstasy in complete bliss and openess

  3. Paul

    October 20, 2015 at 5:57 am

    “if there was only a way to directly tell men what they’re doing wrong or what I want without offending them.” Just tell the man already! If you’re not happy with what he’s doing, you’ve got to let him know; just laying back and taking it, hoping or expecting that he is going to figure it out is just foolish at best. And if he gets offended, that’s his problem. He should be grateful that he actually got some feedback! I know women usually try to be polite at every turn, but they need to speak up if things aren’t going right. Don’t start cheating on your lover, or faking it to get it over with; just keep it real and communicate honestly. The short-term discomfort will be well worth the everlasting enhanced sexual satisfaction.

  4. Francisco

    October 21, 2015 at 1:41 am

    Gabrielle I love you more and more for all of this info you give us these testimonials are very much helpful thanks a million lots of kisses everywhere of your beautiful body.

  5. Morwa

    October 21, 2015 at 5:50 am

    Hi Gabrielle I like ur article or advice is I read it every article you sand me is real because I used to try it is worked. Keep it up my friend

  6. sushil

    October 21, 2015 at 3:54 pm

    Dear Gaby, it is the best way to teach all men that how to treat their lady in bed.

  7. byron bradley

    October 22, 2015 at 4:19 am

    Brilliant!! Great info… We really need to hear this from you, gals! Taking notes…;)))

  8. CHICAGO GIRL

    October 24, 2015 at 12:41 am

    My best advice is to be as honest and sincere with all communication regarding likes and dislikes in the bedroom. I am going to be 50 next year and have always been afraid to do so. I have been with the same man on and off for the past 20 years and this year we both fessed up. We are now more vocal about things we like and don’t like. We read each others body language and breathing patterns. The more the one of us gets turned on the more the other one wants to do. It is very satisfying for both of us. Thank you for all the advice. I learn some thing new every article.

  9. Jim

    November 27, 2015 at 1:08 pm

    We celebrated our 10th anniversary a few days ago. The first year or so she was insatiable and we mage love almost every day. It’s completely different now and she refuses to discuss our relationship or sex life as a couple. On the rare occasions she wants to have sex,she still has one or more vaginal orgasms (no faking). All her body signals tell me it’s real and she is never in a hurry to finish until she is physically and emotionally exhausted.

  10. abdul

    December 7, 2015 at 2:43 pm

    thanks, great tips…

  11. PJ

    May 28, 2016 at 6:31 pm

    Gabrielle:

    They say the 3 P’s of sex are Procreation, Pair bonding, and Pleasure. What is the role of sex in a committed bonded relationship when procreation is not an option? Dr. Berman says that sex at least every other week is necessary to prevent becoming room mates.

  12. MUDASIR

    July 16, 2016 at 8:01 pm

    I always feel more confident when she tells me what she loves in bed and what she hates, that makes me even more relaxed and I am not deforming the game.

  13. Tom

    August 31, 2016 at 12:04 pm

    Hi Gabrielle, I LOVE the way you do this. You are an AWESOME TEACHER, I’m 64 years old & I thought I knew how to please women. Your naked U Program is the BEST!!!! It’s true,you can teach an old dog new tricks!!!! THANK YOU !!!! KISSES & HUGS TO YOU.

  14. Temitope

    September 28, 2016 at 2:18 pm

    Hi Gabrielle,
    I really enjoyed this article and confession made by these women, I have learnt new skills and emotional desires when it comes to sex want your woman.
    Thanks for your emails and periodical publications.

    Warmth Regards
    Temitope

  15. Leigh

    October 16, 2016 at 7:53 pm

    Just give 5 mintes of love and affection to your girl. She will will give you 50 minutes of pleasure. The instant sex booster in woman’s body is in her head and not in her vagina! When men are going to learn?

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