Female ejaculation is one of those things that most couples have heard about, but few have experienced. For all you may have read about squirting, it still might seem like a mysterious sex act. What exactly happens? Why does it happen? Does she like it? Is it gross? Would it turn me on? There are so many unknowns if you have never experienced female ejaculation yourself. A mystery can be extremely exciting for some, but other need to know more… Do you want to know more?
For those of you that do, keep reading. Today I’m going to share the story of 4 real women who have experienced female ejaculation and want to give us the dirty details.
Clarissa, 27 years old
My partner and I have amazing communication when it comes to sex. We both always share what we like and don’t like and therefore, we are always getting better and better at pleasing each other sexually. He had heard of squirting and thought it sounding like fun. I was up to give it a try, so we started trying different positions and techniques. We just were trying to make it happen, but we didn’t put a lot of pressure on ourselves to do it. I think that would have taken the fun out of it. It didn’t happen the first bunch of times we tried, but we kept at it. After all, we are having sex and it feels awesome. We figured, if I ejaculated on top of it, AMAZING, but if not, no big deal, we were still going to have great sex. Then one day, it all came into place. I found that really rigorous stimulation of my G spot and simultaneous clitoral stimulation worked the best for me. The feeling was so intense. I am really grateful that I’m with a partner who is so open minded and was just as fascinated and turned on by the whole thing as I was.
Rina, 34 years old
My husband has always been more experienced than me. Before I met him, I had never even orgasmed with another person, only by myself during masturbation. But he was always really patient and just focused on trying to get me off. He never made a big deal about it, but I could just tell that he was willing to do whatever it took. The first time I squirted with him, it was a total shock to both of us. I was completely mortified, but he LOVED it! He was so excited that I had come from not even being able to cum with another person to being able to do something that few women can do. After seeing his reaction, I relaxed and let myself really enjoy it. It doesn’t always happen for me, but when it does, it always happens after we have been going at it for a really long time. I think the build up is really important for me.
Anne, 41 years old
I never thought anything like this would ever happen to me. I’ve been married for almost 20 years and there have been times where our sex life was downright BORING. But lately we have been really working on getting things back on track. I try to keep an open mind and try new things, which is something I never used to do. I’ve found that I’m enjoying myself so much more now that I have made myself stay open to new things. My husband is thrilled about it all. We started watching porn together to get turned on and to get ideas of new things to try. That’s when we both heard about squirting for the first time. We started to look into how to make it happen and it turns out that we just need to try a few new positions. I can’t believe how easy it was for me. My whole sex life has transformed. I don’t know why, but it makes me feel kind of powerful and really feminine!
Belinda, 29 years old
The first time it ever happened to me, I was with a brand new boyfriend. We had only been together sexually a few times. He was standing up and fucking me from behind and I was kneeling on the edge of the bed. Something about that position just made these really intense feelings start to build and build. I didn’t know what was happening, but I knew it felt different and really good. Suddenly I ejaculated and soaked the bed… I was shocked and pretty embarrassed. The boyfriend didn’t seem to even understand what had happened. We didn’t date for long after that and I was always afraid it would happen again, until I met my current partner, who thinks it’s great. Now I’m not embarrassed of it at all.
P.S. Stimulating the right spots during penetration can greatly intensify the orgasmic experience. Check out my Squirting Orgasms Shortcuts and I’ll teach you what spots to aim for during penetration, particularly if you want to send your lover over the edge and help her squirt!