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The 10 most common oral sex mistakes

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The 10 most common oral sex mistakes

“Be naughty- save Santa a trip”- Author Unknown

There are some things that you just CAN’T do when it comes to oral sex. Because the stimulated part is so sensitive, you have to be extra careful how aggressive you are, when and where you can speed things up and how rough you’re allowed to be.

From my own experience, I’ve learned that men get carried away by their passion and desire to stimulate women and don’t realize when they are going too far. Their intentions are good though, and I always appreciate that. That’s why I made this list of common mistakes so that you get exactly where you want without any hinders or problems.

  1. Play the gynecologist. Of course you’re curious to see what your girlfriend looks like very closely. Go ahead and take a good look. But don’t spread her labia so hard that it feels like she’s having her annual pelvic exam at the gynecologist. Just use your fingers to gently keep her lips apart and slowly slip your tongue inside.
  2. Shake it ‘till you break it. Don’t try to imitate those awfully exaggerated oral sex techniques they do in porn movies, particularly the movement where the guy sticks his tongue right inside the vagina instead of licking, and shakes his head so hard that his ears are touching the girl’s thighs. It seems stupid even on screen and it doesn’t work in real life.
  3. Blow into her vagina. Do not vacuum around her vagina with your lips and, most importantly, do not blow into it. Your girlfriend is not an inflatable doll, you know? Blowing lightly or breathing in or around her vagina might be exciting, but it is also dangerous and it can lead to serious problems.
  4. Over the top watery licking. It’s good to lick, and it’s good to keep your tongue relaxed. But be careful not to become too… slobbery. Too much saliva paired with too heavy panting is not very sexy. If your cunnilingus technique reminds her of her Golden Retriever, it’s not going to be exciting for her. Just keep your cool and take small breaks to ingest the excess of saliva.
  5. Heavy sucking of the clit. Sucking her like a lollipop is “college material”, but if you really want to leave your mark, do it on her neck, arms, breasts or thighs. Do not lock your mouth around her clit and suck so hard she ends up having a lesion. A strong suction of the clit can be very painful and we don’t want that, do we?
  6. Doing her after you’ve had more than your fair share of alcohol. The chances of ruining the moment are sky high if you’re drunk. In order for you to do a good job, you should be able to pay attention to the signals of pleasure she’s sending you and coordinate your moves accordingly, and if you’re drunk you certainly can’t do that. Not to mention if you grow tired or fall asleep mid-work and leave her completely unsatisfied.
  7. Press and stab. Having someone push and push their pointy tongue on your clitoris and inside your vagina is very unpleasant, trust me. Doing that makes you look aggressive and unsure of your technique. My advice is that you relax your tongue and take your time. Gently caress her clitoris and let it bring the labia to you.
  8. Dentures and pubic hair don’t mix. Some of you may still wear braces. If so, make sure she shaves or at least trims her pubic hair before going down on her, or you’ll end up having to solve a very… hairy and painful situation. Keep your licking and caressing at the surface and do it almost in slow motion, to make sure nothing will stand in the way of you pleasuring her.
  9. Swallow in silence. It’s good to make some noise when you’re giving her cunnilingus. Moans are ok, most women like that. Even swallowing (somewhat) noisy is acceptable within certain limits, because you’re letting her know that you’re enjoying this as much as she is. Don’t overdo it though; she might not like that very much.
  10. Keeping your nails too long. Unless you are a follower of the extremist “without hands” technique, even the tiniest nail brushing to help supplement your tongue can transform the whole act into a remake of Edward Scissorhands. Don’t butcher her private parts with your enthusiasm and your sharp nails. Cut them short! It’s for a good cause. And this will also give you an altruistic excuse for biting your nails.

Have a sexy week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Show your girlfriend this list and ask her what she thinks about it. Her answers might be just what you need!

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15 Comments

15 Comments

  1. bubbles

    June 10, 2011 at 7:44 pm

    thank you so much for your oral sex info; i am a lady classy and very embarrased to speak out on certain sex matters ;i have learned a lot from your emails keep up the good work;
    i am older but not dead yet and it keep up my libito ;; i have many friends but not sex partners
    i am very selective in my male partners; of which i have none now as i have not found anyone that trips my trigger you know what i mean? keep up the good work thanks bubbles

  2. Rofl

    June 11, 2011 at 12:38 am

    HAHA wow I remember reading this 2, maybe 3 years ago from an email Gabrielle sent… and yet I forgot about one of the points 😛 thanks for the update!

  3. Mario

    June 11, 2011 at 3:41 am

    Hi Grabrielle! Thank you for these very nice tips. All of them are very nice and you are absollutely right in recommending the necessary and importante care we men have to have with this so sensible and important part of the woman’s body. If I were a woman of course I would to like to have the same level o attenttion to this part and what we want to us should also be given to the others. Best Regards.

  4. SBR-KHAN

    June 11, 2011 at 5:21 am

    thank you very much for updates about oral sex, information & Hot; i am very interested to know about sex (Possitive and Nagative) results and wana know to keep my self updated about sex. i have learned a lot from your emails keep up the best job to share your knowledge;

    Good Sex and Good Luck,

    Appriciated, Thanks Sbr Khan

  5. Auxtin

    June 11, 2011 at 7:16 am

    thanks for this wel-informed mail! Gabr.

  6. Auxtin

    June 11, 2011 at 7:23 am

    hi gabr.what sort self-exercise can help me with premature ejaculation. Can mastubation be?thanks!

  7. seema

    June 11, 2011 at 8:54 am

    Hi,
    I like your techniques but i have a little different view,i like wen the tongue in serted violently inside the vagina.i say my guys to insert it as much as possible and even voilently.

  8. LOVER

    June 11, 2011 at 11:28 am

    ITS REALY GOOD TIPS

  9. emmanuel chanda

    June 11, 2011 at 4:10 pm

    thanks for the sober but sabtle informed sex information.Your approch is very objective, simple and true.It is on factual information that is useful rather than on morden time culture of liberal sex without concern for truth.You dont sensualise sex as an end in itself, but as a gift to humanity which can be harnessed and be done humanily. Thanks.

  10. greg

    June 11, 2011 at 8:18 pm

    Hi Gabrielle, #2 and #6 are very important,
    but #5, all depends on her. If she has a large clit, I find that sucking it in and
    out of my mouth and carefully bite down on it usually drives her wild. And when she has her period, she likes a good licking
    all over, ending up at her anis, with a
    little finger work. When she has no
    underpants, she likes some oral in the car, before going into the store, and I have the taste of he in my mouth while she shops. It’s all good and up to what she wants.

  11. Don

    June 12, 2011 at 5:56 am

    I like your technique of tounge inserting into a vagina n sucking the clits it does work..thanks..

  12. Berniece Porter

    June 12, 2011 at 6:31 am

    Bern,
    Hi Gabrielle
    #5, I like it when he sucks it roughand licks it rough as well. Also gently playing with it with his fingers while pushing his tongue in and out.I really like when he gently breathes in it after he swallows. I like when we sit across the room from each other and he talks sexy while looking at me caress my breast and vagina until I’m ready for him to give me some great oral love. thanks for your tips.

  13. Stephen D. Sackey

    June 14, 2011 at 5:39 am

    That is wonderful tips

  14. Legagaripa

    June 18, 2011 at 11:57 am

    Wonderfl lessons Gabby. Kip up the wonderfl job. xoxo!!!

  15. Vee

    June 20, 2011 at 10:31 am

    Thank you so much Gabriel I just learned something very important now about oral sex. Like to learn from you.

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