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7 Tips to the Best Oral Sex She’s Ever Had

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7 Tips to the Best Oral Sex She’s Ever Had

I think we can all agree that oral sex is one of the best things in life. It’s wet, it’s warm, it feels… nothing short of amazing when it’s done right. Men love it, women love it, it’s a way to give completely to your partner without taking anything in return. Oral is great, however, you want to be good at it. I mean, you want to be GREAT at it, maybe even the best she’s ever had. Although many women like a variety of different things, there are some tips that can work for everyone and a couple that are very likely to get positive results.

1. She needs to be at ease – Some people aren’t used to having all the attention on them. It can feel uncomfortable for some women. They might feel worried that they’re going to take too long to cum (hint* this will only make her take EVEN longer because her mind will be distracted). Make sure she knows you’re not in a rush. Tell her, relax, “I’m going to be down here for a while” with a little smile on your face. Don’t ask her if she’s close because this will just bring back thoughts about how long she’s taking. Some women will also worry about how they look and feel very exposed in this position. She is on her back, spread eagle, with her entire body exposed. Even the most confident woman might feel a little self conscious. Let her get comfortable in whatever way she needs. Maybe that could be covering up part of her body with a sheet or turning the lights down very low.

2. Find a good position – With oral sex it’s important that both of you find comfortable positions to be in. The giver needs to be comfortable because being hunched over another person’s private parts can get tiring. Try kneeling at the end of the bed and putting a pillow under your knees for extra cushion. For her, try putting a pillow under her lower back and butt to prop her pelvis up slightly. She’ll then lie on her back with her knees bent, her feet flat on the bed and her knees spread wide. This will help her really open up.

3. Teasing is everything – Since the clitoris is extremely sensitive, teasing and stimulating it very lightly with the tongue will feel amazing. Many men are way too rough on the clitoris even when they think they’re being gentle. The more you tease, the more turned on she will be and the more her arousal will build and build.

4. Pay attention to her body cues – Notice how she’s moving her body. Is she pushing her hips up toward you, or slinking away? If it’s the later, something you’re doing might be hurting (maybe too rough of a touch). Remember that some women are very quiet when it comes to sex, so that’s not an indication of whether or not she is enjoying it. Is she flushed, her heart beating faster, her breathing heavier and faster? Is she getting wetter? These are all good signs that things are going well.

5. Know what she likes – You can try move your tongue up and down or from side to side. Many women will have a preference. Focus on her clit and then try the area just next to the clit and the labia. Watch her cues and remember what she likes. As you see her nearing orgasm, don’t change what you’re doing. She’s likely getting close to orgasm because you’ve hit a sweet spot.

6. Don’t be afraid to enlist a little help – Don’t worry, I’m not going to suggest you bring another person into the bedroom (although some of you would probably like that!). You can enlist some help by incorporating sex toys into your oral sex play. Try a vibrator and apply it to the labia or the area close to the clitoris and allow your tongue to do the work on her clit. Another option is to use a dildo and penetrate her with it while you lick and suck her on the outside.

7. Let her bask in it – Once she has cum, let her just lie there and enjoy the moment. Just like men, some women who have had a really good orgasm just want to lie there for a while and just enjoy the relaxing sensation in her body. Don’t try to immediately have sex or request a little oral for yourself. Let her relax for a while. Oh, and don’t be worried if she doesn’t end up having an orgasm every time. Some women won’t and some women won’t EVERY time, but that doesn’t mean that she didn’t really enjoy it. Women tend to be less orgasm-focused than men, so it’s not the end of the world if she doesn’t cum every time.

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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6 Comments

6 Comments

  1. karl

    November 9, 2015 at 8:48 pm

    All good thoughts, but slower is better, gentler softer easier make a Big impact on her

  2. Marty

    November 10, 2015 at 12:12 pm

    Going down on my woman – is mandatory – for both of us! I truly enjoy making her squirm, she becomes very tasty and I truly enjoy the “return favors”! I start off slow and easy – but she – always – encourages me to be more aggressive when she starts to “get off”!

  3. Chris

    November 11, 2015 at 3:17 am

    Hello Marty, I do understand both you and
    Karl, the point is, how safe is it medically
    to be doing this sucking and licking? waiting
    for your response, Chris.

  4. P.R.Nair

    November 11, 2015 at 11:51 am

    Excellent and very practical advice. Thanks a bunch

  5. Roy

    November 23, 2015 at 11:59 pm

    Chris, there are nomedical safety issues involved with cunnilingus.
    That’s unless one or both have a STD.

  6. MissShelly

    December 19, 2015 at 8:04 pm

    Gabrielle: What a great article. As a female, I love that you’re teaching the time and attention that’s needed, not the fast and hard approach. Thanks so much for educating on the intimacy that leads to mind-blowing sex. Keep up the great work. MS

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