Everyone needs to be a little creative when it comes to sex and foreplay. If you’ve found yourself in a sexual rut with your partner, it’s especially important that you change things up. Even if you’re not in a rut, trying new and different things is what is going to keep your sex life hot and steamy. The new, exciting experiences are what stays with your partner and has her fantasizing about the experience the whole next week!
With that in mind, today I’m going to share with your 5 completely unique and sexy types of foreplay. This isn’t the kind of foreplay you’re going to use every night, but the kind that you do once in a while to give her desire (and yours!) a turbo boost.
1. Watch a sexy movie together – While some couples will be up for watching porn together, that might be out of the question for others. That’s okay. That doesn’t mean that you can’t partake in this fun and hot type of foreplay. There are plenty of regular movies that feature very steamy sex scenes. Try watching classics like Basic Instinct or 9 and a Half Weeks. The movie Secretary is a good option if you want to introduce some kink into your relationship and you want to see if your partner might find it sexy. There are a lot of options out there, you just have to search around. For those who want something more hardcore, try watching porn together, but remember to know your audience. You don’t want to put on a porn that’s marketed exclusively for men (for example one with a girl being gang banged..unless of course your partner is into that!). There are a lot of films that are marketed toward women or couples that you both will enjoy.
2. Read a sexy story together – Have you ever read erotica? Well, reading it out loud to your partner and having her read to you can be a fun and hot way to turn each other on. You might not know that romance novels (which are full of steamy sex scenes) are one of the most popular genres among women. This is because women enjoy reading erotica a lot more than they might let on. You can find lots of sexy stories online for free. Some couples might feel too embarrassed to partake in this kind of foreplay, but even if you do it being silly, you will still find yourselves getting turned on by the stories! Give it a try. If nothing else, it’s a fun and different way to spend an evening together.
3. Tie her up – Grab some silk scarves (or a couple of your ties) and lightly tie her wrists to the bedposts. You don’t want to surprise your partner with this one, however, so it’s important to take it slowly. First pull the scarf out and begin sliding it over her naked skin. This will feel amazing. Then slowly run the material all the way down her arm to her wrist. Pin it down with your hand. Then slide the scarf around her wrist and begin to slowly tie it around. All the time you’re doing this you should be studying her reactions. If she seems uncomfortable or scared in any way you should stop and/or ask her, “is this okay?” If she seems open to it, continue, but go very slowly and continue to gauge her reactions. Bring her tied up wrist to the bedpost and begin to tie it there. Make sure not to make it too tight. Once she’s tied up slowly begin kissing her all over her body.
4. Feed each other – You can begin with typically sexy foods like strawberries with whipped cream, chocolate pudding, honey, chocolate or caramel syrup. Try scooping some onto your finger and letting her take it into her mouth to clean it off. This will feel amazing for you and it will make her feel sexy and naughty, as the act is so similar to her giving you a blow job. Use food on each other’s bodies as well for a different kind of fun foreplay.
5. Role play – One of you could be the boss and the other is the assistant. Or you could play teacher and student. There are a lot of fun ways to role play and this can be especially sexy as you get to play out your fantasies in a safe and comfortable environment.