Do you ever feel like you want to do something a little on the naughty side? You might think your partner never thinks about those kinds of things, but guess what? Women fantasize about getting kinky too. Most guys have an internal bucket list of naughty things they’d like to do in their lifetime. Why not start to tick some of those things off your bucket list with your partner right now? In case you’re not sure where to start, here is my list of kinky and fun things you have to do in your lifetime:
1. Sex in a Public Place – This is something you need to try at least once in your life. Sex in a public place completely magnifies the sensations of regular sex (which is pretty amazing on its own) because you’ve added the fear of getting caught. You have adrenaline pumping through your body and it might even feel like you’re high on drugs, but this is the most natural high you can get. Here are some ideas to make it happen. Seek out a bathroom in a public area that has a private separate entrance with a lock on the door. Shopping malls often have these, called family bathrooms. Or you could get started with some hot foreplay under the dinner table while out at a restaurant. Just strategically place a napkin over your lap (or your partner’s) and let your hands wander. Another option is to go to the great outdoors and find a secluded spot off the beaten path.
2. Pop Rocks Oral Sex – Remember that weird candy that fizzes and pops in your mouth when it mixes with your saliva? It’s probably been years since you’ve tried it, but it’s time to feel that sensation yet again. It works both ways, so you can both receive and give pop rocks oral. The sensations that you feel in your mouth will transfer over into your oral and feel… well, you really have to try it for yourself. Once you’re done trying it out on your partner, make sure you have an extra pack so she can return the favor.
3. Playing with Blindfolds – Being blindfolded is especially sexy when you’re getting it on because it requires total trust in the other person. One of your most important senses is completely cut off, so in theory this will heighten the other senses. Take turns being the one blindfolded and the one to blindfold.
4. Butt Play – A lot of guys out there get a little weirded out by having anything inserted into their bum, but believe me, if you haven’t tried it then you’re missing out. The reason why this is popular among men is because anal play stimulates the prostate, which will give you a more powerful orgasm than you’ve ever felt in your life! Try inserting a butt plug while you have sex for a combo pack of pleasure.
5. Electro Shock Play – Nope, you didn’t read that wrong. There is a special sex toy called a Violet wand which gives low grade, completely safe electric vibrations. Many people find this strange and different sensation really sexy. Hey, you never know until you give it a try. And no one will be able to say that you don’t keep things interesting in your sex life!
6. Play Ball! – Another thing a lot of men really enjoy is when a woman plays with their testicles. You may have already incorporated ball play into your sexual life, but what about taking it up a notch and making things a little more interesting? Try putting some whipped cream or chocolate syrup on your balls and having her lick them clean. Or for something really different, try dipping your balls into a cup of warm (not hot!) liquid. Have your partner grab a straw and blow bubbles into the liquid. I’ve heard it’s like a mini jacuzzi for your testicles!
7. An Hour in Heaven – Get your adrenaline going once again by doing something naughty like going to a rent by the hour hotel room. Pick a clean but fun spot with jacuzzis and themed rooms. You can go any time of the day with your partner and it will feel like you’re doing something really dirty, even though you’re really not! But that’s what makes it so much fun! You could even role play something really spicy to add some extra flavor to the experience.
Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
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