Let’s imagine this simple scenario, shall we? You are standing around a bar table with a couple of friends when you notice a gorgeous woman across the room. I mean smoking hot. She walks up to you and says, “There is something about you, I’m not sure what it is but I’d really like to get to know you. Would you like to go someplace quiet and get to know each other?” You go off with her in the corner while your friends wonder how you just pulled this woman – the best looking woman in the bar and way out of your league.
That would be great it that is how it worked with women, wouldn’t it? They come up to you and tell you exactly how they feel and what they want, without the need to play mindless flirtation games that sometimes lead to nowhere and are just a waste of time. Plus, what guy wouldn’t want the woman to do all the work for once? But in our society, this just doesn’t happen. It’s not socially acceptable for a woman to approach a man. Ultimately it is up to the guy to make the first move.
If getting a woman to approach you and pursue you sounds like an impossible dream, I have to tell you that it doesn’t have to be. You can get a woman to invite you in her bed without much effort. In fact, the less effort you put into it, the better.
If you want to know more about this innovative method of getting the woman to basically drag you to bed, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – this technique is innocent and ordinary, so you can’t get rejected. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.
Convince her with your eyes
In face to face conversation, the words you say only account for 10 percent of the total message. The rest is done through non-verbal communication: body language. And the part of your body that most “speaks” to a woman and convinces her are your eyes. But you have to learn the subtle art of the correct eye contact, otherwise you’ll just appear creepy or, worse, desperate. Here are some things to take into consideration:
The extended gaze
Anytime you lock eyes with a woman, show her you are interested by holding her gaze for a second or two longer than what would be considered a normal glance. Warning: holding eye contact is different than starring. You don’t want to find yourself starring at a woman like a crazy man. If she’s with a friend, move your eyes to her companion, but make sure you don’t spend more time looking at her friend than you did at her. This way she’ll sense she has competition, but she will still feel that she’s winning. And this is all she needs in order to start the chase.
Choose a more subtle approach when checking her out. Don’t straight stare at her breasts and then quickly look back to her eyes, hoping she didn’t notice. Trust me, she did. Instead, first look at her face intently, than move on to the rest of her body, smiling as if you liked what you saw. Then avert your gaze and force yourself to not look in her direction for at least 5 minutes. Let her stew and fidget. Let her think of ways to have her look at her again. When you finally do look again, she’ll be so relieved and happy she’ll basically be on the verge of throwing herself to you then and there.
Walk the eye-talk
You’ve been conversing with your eyes so far, now it’s time to use the rest of your body language and movement is your best friend at this point. Get up and walk to the bar, making sure she’s watching you, and walk with purpose, with an air of confidence and even a little cockiness. Walk like you’re somebody, walk tall, with your head up, chest out, smiling, perhaps even laughing. Show her that you are having more fun than anyone there. All of these body language messages signal to her that you’re confident, that you’re interesting, that you have something to offer, that you’re fun and fun to be around.
P.S. Getting a hot woman in bed and – most importantly – having it be her idea – is not that difficult at all, as you already saw. For more on this thorny topic, check out this program called “Elixir of Eros”, created by my friend Mike Wright – this technique works fast and basically all women are powerless in the face of it. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.