Breast orgasms can be deeply erotic, if you know how to make them fun and kinky. Let me show you how to bring out your sensual best.
What woman doesn’t enjoy an extended, languorous lovemaking session, with extended attention paid to the breasts? The reality is that not many women are fortunate enough to enjoy such prolonged, deeply erotic breast sex marathons in their hectic daily lives. I know that juggling excruciating office hours, managing the house, and shouldering everyday responsibilities may leave couples with little room for slow, passionate breast loveplay – most couples focus on vaginal penetration and hope that’s enough for the satisfaction of both parties involved.
So what does one do when this is not the case? Turn back the attention to the breasts, of course! To put it simply, breast play is a fun, sensual, and utterly joyful sexual activity that you should engage into more often than not. Generally, breasts are fondled for a bit during foreplay, but not nearly enough, considering their immense pleasure potential.
I can safely say that breast orgasms can be adrenaline-boosting and time-savoring erotic exercises that rival actual intercourse. Gorging on it on special occasions, every now and then is what ensures its guilty pleasure status. Likewise, giving your partner a boobgasm— a most delicious kind of passionate lovemaking—can be extremely satisfying, if you know how to navigate it properly.
In order to turn the heat up when it comes to massaging your woman’s breasts, check out this program – Orgasmic Breasts – by my friend Susan Bratton. Her erotic breast play strategy is the perfect warm up for exquisite and deeply fulfilling ecstasy. Follow her advice and you’ll definitely deepen your erotic connection. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.
You may be in the throes of breast passion, but since the girls aren’t naturally lubricated like the vagina, you have to thread carefully so that you don’t inflict pain, rather than pleasure. So, keep a lube handy. Broadly speaking, there are three types of lubes—water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based ones. Use whatever suits you well.
Breast play is supposed to be carnal and spontaneous, true. But since it’s in itself a form foreplay, a bit of preparation can go a long way. Make sure your partner is turned on before you go for those sweet breast handling sessions. Use your hands on both her breasts and her vaginal area, particularly the clitoris. The combination of moves will arouse her deeply. If she fails to climax during breast play alone, you can always help her climax through clitoral stimulation.
Experts say communication is the key to good sex, even for breast play. It helps get rid of many inhibitions as well. Engage your partner in conversations about sexual likes and dislikes. Sexting is a popular method of virtual foreplay these days. So send steamy texts to your bae before you indulge in giving her a boobgasm. For shy couples, there are apps. Take UnderCovers, for instance. The app offers couples 99 kinky ideas, including those for breast play, and all you need to do is click ‘yes’, ‘no’, or ‘maybe’. If you both click ‘yes’, then you’ll both be notified. If you click ‘maybe’ then there’s a little chat window that will let you both discuss it further.
At the end of the day, any sexual activity is an opportunity to get close to each other. Breast play is as much about physical intimacy as it is about the emotional connect. So keep an open mind—your partner may or may not orgasm during the deed. Urgency can lead to disappointment, so enjoy the moment of togetherness as much as you can. Experts say that an orgasm may not always be the primary sexual reward, particularly for women. Who cares if she doesn’t come at the end of you play? It’s breast fondling, after all! So don’t sweat over it, just go with the flow.
Breast play on your bed in the missionary position? Nah! Kick those mainstream habits and look for some cosy nooks in your house instead. Here are a few suggestions:
ON THE RUG
If you have a fireplace at home, your breast play could get bloody hot! Instead of a couch, hit the rug, and try new and exciting positions.
AGAINST A CUPBOARD
Stand facing each other against a cupboard and do what you gotta do!
Make her sit on the chair while you straddle her and have your way with her breasts. Need I say more?
IN THE SHOWER
With warm water stimulating your bodies, who needs actual vaginal sex?
If the height is right and she’s right on the edge, with her legs dangling and her back on the tabletop, breast play can be deeply satisfying. Plus, you have access to all sorts of yummy add-ons.
P.S. Big or small, perky or pendulous, with little pink nipples or large and dark ones, breasts are your favorite part of her body. Let Susan Bratton teach you how to skilfully play with them! Her program, Orgasmic Breast, tells you how to accelerate her turn-ons and approach her girls with finesse. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.
And, while you are at it, go on over to Naked U and check out my program all about breast play- “Boobgasms“!