“When people say “It’s better than sex” they clearly aren’t having the right kind of sex.”
Preparing a romantic candlelit dinner can help get a woman in the mood. But you might be overlooking a much easier route, Romeo: her ears. Sure, figuring out what dirty dialogue she craves is tricky. Plus, you don’t want to sound canned or like a bad porn star. These erotically charged lines will tap in to her inner sex kitten – before she’s in bed, during the act, and even after the deed.
“I can’t stop thinking about later tonight”
When you make it known that she’s monopolizing your mind, she will get excited and wonder about what exactly will happen when the two of you are alone. Plus, since there’s no immediate physical payoff, it builds intense anticipation.
“I’m dying to kiss you”
Sorry, but odds are you’re not making out as much as she wants to. That’s why she’ll lick her chops over this line. To make her feel adored, gently tuck her hair behind her ear and whisper it when you know you can’t make good on your desires for an hour or so (say, when you’ve just ordered appetizers). She won’t be able to focus on anything but what that kiss will feel like. And when you are finally home and ready to heat things up, it’s key to use phrases that indicate your pleasure and arousal. It’s encouraging for her to know that her touches are enough to get you worked up. So try lines like, “I want you”, “I could kiss you forever”, and “I can’t keep my hands off you”. They all send the message that you find her irresistible. If you want to take it up a notch, phrases like “Take you clothes off right now”, “I’m getting so hard”, and “I can practically feel like I’m inside you” express your fast-building passion. She’ll be ecstatic over the fact that you started out excited and have now reached the point where you’re going wild.
“Wow, I want to touch you everywhere”
This works wonders in the heat of the moment. She’ll relish the insinuation that you’re going to take your sweet time pleasuring every inch of her. Also, the “wow” factor reassures her that you can’t get enough of how she looks, tastes and feels. It can be scary being naked, so acknowledging how turned on you are will help her relax. Also, during oral sex and intercourse, women want to know if they are doing a good job… and they want specifics. When you say, “That feels so great”, she’ll wonder, What does? Try more detail, like “I love when you tilt your pelvis like that” or during oral, “Circling your tongue that way feels amazing”. Also, let her know you are ready to climax, because it builds her anticipation. “Oh my God, I’m about to explode!” heightens her excitement. Then, if you feel like it, express yourself during the actual orgasm. You don’t want to sound scripted (after all, orgasm is all about losing control), but yelling out “Oh my God, that’s it!” while you come confirms that she did a very good job.
“I love that thing you do with your mouth”
Or hell, insert any body part or move of hers that makes you glad to be alive. This is crucial when you’re basking in post-coital bliss. Every woman craves positive feedback, and such a reinforcing line accomplishes two things: it tells her that you were paying attention to what she was doing and appreciate her efforts, and it gives her erotic info to file away for the next sack session. A less cheesy version of “that was the best I’ve ever had” is “We always have amazing sex, but that was off the charts.” If she’s a new partner, try “That was a whole new level of pleasure.” Not saying anything will make her wonder if it was just so-so for you. She’s also curious about what exactly you liked because her pleasure is associated with yours. Examples: “I’ve never been that deep inside of you” or “My legs feel more tingly than ever.” As a clincher, say “It’s going to be hard to top that… but I can’t wait to try.” It’s reassuring for her to know that she was so great, you can’t resist dreaming about doing it again.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
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