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Her Orgasm Myths Debunked!

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Her Orgasm Myths Debunked!

You all know by now that women don’t cum as easily as men do. It’s likely been an issue that has frustrated you, either with your current partner or past partners. Keep in mind that different doesn’t always mean worse. Women might orgasm differently or not as easily as men, but you shouldn’t assume that means their experience isn’t as good as yours. I’ve decided to make a list of the top female orgasm myths today and let you in on the truth. Remember a man who is knowledgeable about the female body and how it works will be a much better lover.

1. MYTH – All women love G spot stimulation and want a G spot orgasm. This is a big one. The G spot orgasm gets a lot of attention from sex columns and books. It is often put up on a pedestal and thought of as the unattainable, but oh-so-desirable female orgasm. Here’s the catch, not all women enjoy G spot stimulation and not all of them even want a G spot orgasm. It’s logical when you think about it. Not all men like to have their nipples sucked or a finger in their bum, but some LOVE it! Well, of course, women are the same. Some women will absolutely love a G spot orgasm and others won’t. For some women G spot stimulation is uncomfortable, no matter how it’s done and no matter what technique is used. Many women feel the urge to pee when their G spot is stimulated and some find that unbearable. Other women have reported finding G spot stimulation painful. So if your partner tells you that G spot action is not for her, believe that she knows her own body well enough to know what she likes and what she doesn’t!

2. MYTH – G spot orgasms are superior to clitoral orgasms. There is a common belief that G spot orgasms are better than clitoral orgasms. This might be because G spot orgasms are harder to have, so it’s assumed that they are even better than the easier to achieve clitoral orgasm. Not true. Those who have had both kinds of orgasm (only an estimated 30%) say that vaginal orgasms are just different from clitoral. Some prefer one over the other, but many say they are both just awesome, but different in their own way.

3. MYTH – If she can’t orgasm it’s because you’re doing something wrong. There are many reasons why a woman might not orgasm. Like men, it could be because she is tired, stressed, distracted, had too much to drink, or a number of other factors. Sometimes it’s just not going to happen. It could also be because the woman is having performance anxiety, feeling self conscious about her body or any number of psychological reasons. It could also be because she doesn’t know her body well in a sexual sense and hasn’t explored what sensations she likes and doesn’t like. In the end it’s important to know that it’s not necessarily because you’re not doing something right. Sometimes you just have to accept that it won’t happen and enjoy sex anyway.

4. MYTH – She won’t enjoy sex if she doesn’t cum. If you have a partner who doesn’t always orgasm then you might be a believer of this myth. Some men just can’t understand how a woman could enjoy sex if it doesn’t end in an orgasm. Again, women are different. There are many that enjoy sex and all that leads up to it immensely, even if they never have an orgasm. If your partner doesn’t often have orgasms, make sure you pay a lot of attention to foreplay and make the experience passionate and intimate. She will enjoy that attention and have a great experience anyway.

5. MYTH – Women can’t ejaculate. Most of my readers should already know that this is a myth, but I wanted to add it in here just in case you somehow missed it! Some women do ejaculate. There is still a lot of research that needs to be done on this topic, but what we do know is that some women ejaculate from their urethra during a G spot orgasm. To know more, check out some of my information on female ejaculation!

All of the men that visit my site have one thing in common: they want to please their partner more in bed. By learning more about what makes your partner tick you can become a more talented and sensitive lover who knows how to meet her needs.

Gabrielle Moore

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  1. Prakash

    May 23, 2015 at 8:04 am

    Very true…. its scientific & useful information.. yes I’m gynaecologists but find this interesting.

  2. John

    May 30, 2015 at 6:40 pm

    Hey Gabrielle,
    You have great articles. I have had one really great experience with one woman who felt like she was pissing all over me and then afterward I realized after feeling the sticky fluids that she had an orgasm that was out of this world. She also hung on to me like no other. I have not had this since but women tell me I am a good Cocksman. What gives? I not well endowed but above average in size. I do love foreplay and can last a long time. I also try to give the woman the pleasure first before I think of myself. Love to hear a comment from you.

  3. Lee

    June 3, 2015 at 2:36 pm

    Gabrielle darling,
    I keep all your articles for reference. Simply adore how you help us relax and experiment. You’ve helped raise my confidence, as I’m certain others, heightening our experience, and expanding our proclivities. Now, sex is not only desired, it is exciting contemplating the next adventure. Thanks a ton, Baby Doll!


  4. Marty

    June 4, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    Hey Gabrielle,
    Good informative article, as usual, but I found it interesting that you begin with another big fat myth that you don’t even debunk!
    So I will for you…
    I have found that when a woman is treated properly outside the bedroom, and has the proper attitude toward sex and her man, she will be able to have orgasms instantly, anytime. Most of the women I have been with in the past 10 years have always cum way faster than I do and almost always have multiple orgasms. Usually one orally to get warmed up, then give her another one or more from intercourse of some kind or another. Then when I’m really horny and ready, I will let her orgasm on my penis get me off, which in turn always gives her one final wild screaming release when I ejaculate. Its like an upward spiral of pleasure that gets really wild and uninhibited at the top with lots of slapping and yelling and primal noises that make the neighbors wonder…
    Most of my partners will almost always cum when I do whether we have been going at it for one second or one hour. And most of the time my partner will cum when I do regardless of where I do it, too, whether it is on her titties, in her mouth, pussy or wherever, they almost always get off good when I finally do.
    One of my most recent lovers allowed me to train her to cum on command. I would simply say “OK… Go ahead !” and her body would have a spasm and her pussy would literally gush. Any time, any day, anywhere, even over the phone and by text! She had to get special absorbent panties so we could go shopping in the meat section without leaving a trail on the floor! One time I was capping beer bottles at a friends brewery and looked at her and said those magic words as I jerked the lever down to crimp another bottle cap in place. Her body jerked and she got that Chessie cat grin. She had about 50 more hot little cums that day, one for each bottle I jerked the lever on and sealed. She didn’t even have to be in the room, just the sound. It was Hilarious!! And later that night she was really ready for me…
    Get a woman to trust you sexually with a command and reward system and she will give you complete control of her mind and body. Just be careful, you are playing with very powerful natural forces and people can get hurt if misdirected or misapplied. I have had way more than one woman become more addicted to me than crack, And the withdrawals are not fun. So once a woman gives you this power over her, she may be very upset when you take away your control and pleasure. Just sayin’. Be ready to stay creative, finish what you started, remain quietly dominant outside the bedroom, and behind closed doors, use her like a rag doll. Most of all do everything with an attitude of acceptance and generosity, a loving open heart and a spirit of fun and adventure. Don’t intentionally hurt anyone (unless you both agree on it), be honest with yourself and everyone else and in the long run you will always get what you need and leave a lot of happiness wherever you go.

  5. Kirk

    September 7, 2015 at 12:07 am

    One of the primary reason’s behind woman not having an ejaculating orgasm is comfort. Woman have to be very comfortable with the man they are with. That is because when women ejaculate it is often mistaken as urine which is a very embarrassing thing to try and explain to the man they are with. I know because I have made more then one woman have an ejaculating orgasm. Each time the first thing after ‘Thank You’ was ‘It isn’t urine’. Then there have been the one’s I have had to explain what just happened when they had their orgasm. Of course this was done while I was changing the sheet’s yet they did understand and then wanted to know when we could do it again. It is all about comfort level and an understanding of what can and will happen with a little patience and I think that we all enjoy all the practice session’s.

  6. bumbo

    May 12, 2016 at 8:55 pm

    Men must learn how too handle women and turn them on the biggest issue is that we (men ) tend to rush into sex not giving these ladies good orgasm because we just think of cumming ahead of them only to leave them behind

  7. Elizabeth Bona

    August 21, 2017 at 7:32 pm

    What a load of lies you men tell! Marty you are mental! Women don’t come when men do you liar. They don’t ejaculate either.

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