Let’s get something straight: Giving your partner multiple orgasms isn’t some exotic skill; it simply means making sure she’s having more than one peak during a single lovemaking event — which could mean within minutes, hours, or an entire evening. It’s easier for women to have multiple O’s than for men because the female body doesn’t go through a post-orgasm recovery period, meaning we can stay aroused longer and get heated up again and again. Want to give it a try? Follow these steps and enjoy the sexploration!
Step 1: Get her in the groove.
You have a better chance of repeating her orgasm if you’ve already ramped her up with the help of outside sexual stimuli — music, candles, massage, movies, whatever connects you with her body. The higher her sexual energy is built up before you touch her, the easier it will be for her to have one orgasm or even multiples, because the pot of desire is larger and you’ve got nothing but sensuality simmering.
Step 2: Tease her out.
Now that she’s feeling sexy, it’s time to get things revving hotter. Caress her skin with a luxurious material or play with sensitive spots, like her neck or breasts. Once her body is responding to touch, move on to genital stimulation, but avoid penetration just yet. When exploring multiples, it’s often more effective for a woman to have her first orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation — which is best accomplished with a vibrator or via oral or manual action. Take it slowly and try delaying her orgasm until she can’t hold out anymore. By backing off just before she orgasms, then building up and pulling back several more times, you can significantly increase the amount of sexual tension coursing through her body. This not only heightens her chances for an explosive first orgasm, it also prepares her for others. Her body starts to expect that after she has one climax, she’ll have another, because you’ve trained it to be ready for a rise and a fall. This trick is taken from Flesh on Flesh, one of the new courses part of my latest program – Naked U Season 3 – If you don’t have access to it, click here to learn more – because I’ve gathered some impressive new information on how to give your woman next level pleasure.
Step 3: Restart stimulation.
Begin stimulating her clitoris again within 30 seconds of her first orgasm. By doing so, you can capitalize on the fact that her body is still highly aroused. If her clitoris is too sensitive immediately afterward, return to the other areas she found pleasurable in Step 2. “You want to hang on to that sexual energy by continuing to caress her. When she’s ready, try moving on to intercourse with clitoral stimulation (use your hand or a vibrator if intercourse alone isn’t hitting the spot). You can find this particular technique, together with similar ones in Dripping Wet Secrets, one of the new courses part of in my latest program – Naked U Season 3. If you haven’t got it yet, Check it out by clicking this link.
But most importantly, let go of expectations. Don’t focus on the orgasm, because you’ll lose yourself in a goal-oriented place. Focus on the pleasure and follow the pleasure, and the orgasm will come. With others right behind it!
There’s more than one kind of multiple.
- Compound singles: Each orgasm is separate and distinct, with a return to a partially unaroused state between each peak. I liken this to a pearl necklace with a length of chain between each pearl.
- Sequential multiple: Each orgasm occurs two to 10 minutes apart, with minimal reduction in arousal in between. Think of this type as a pearl choker with very little chain between each pearl.
- Serial multiple: Orgasms are separated by seconds or just a minute. May feel like one long climax with spasms of varying intensity — like a solid strand of pearls.
P.S. Is there anything that remotely equals the thrill of the female orgasm? Speaking as a female, I can’t think of anything. That’s why I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking female orgasms, and what you can do to encourage their arrival. So here, finally, is everything you need to know about helping your lady have stronger, longer orgasms. Click this link and check out my latest work, Naked U Season 3, out now.