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The Detail I Didn’t Notice Until Afterwards
The first time I squirted properly — fully, undeniably, in a way that ended with both of us laughing and a towel that needed serious attention — there was a small detail about what he was doing that I did not consciously register at the time.
It took me a while afterwards to figure out what it had been.
His fingers were inside me, which i had expected. Palm up, curled toward the front wall, which i had expected. Slow, firm, repetitive pressure on the urethral sponge, which — having read every squirting article on the internet by that point — I had also expected.
What I had not expected was what his other hand was doing.
His other hand was on my belly. Flat. Heel of the palm just above my pubic bone. Pressing down. Gently, but not absent-mindedly. Deliberately.
I remember, at one point, looking down and registering it and thinking, in a confused way: that’s a weird place for him to put his hand.
It wasn’t a weird place. It was, in fact, the entire trick.
And in the years since, having had the same configuration happen with other men who knew what they were doing and not happen with men who didn’t, I have become genuinely militant about this:
If you are trying to make a woman squirt with one hand, you are using the wrong number of hands.
Why One Hand Is Almost Never Enough
Here is what is actually happening, mechanically, when a woman squirts.
Pressure on the urethral sponge — the area on the front wall of her vagina that contains the Skene’s glands — causes those glands to engorge and eventually release fluid. The amount of pressure required is more than most men intuitively realise, and the pressure has to be sustained for several minutes.
One hand, working from inside, can apply firm upward pressure to that area.
But the urethral sponge isn’t a thin layer. It wraps around the urethra and extends back toward the bladder, into a small zone that one hand can press against but cannot fully compress on its own.
Which is where the other hand comes in.
Pressing down on her lower abdomen, from outside — heel of the palm just above the pubic bone, three to four fingers’ width below her navel — does something almost no man has been told about. It compresses the urethral sponge from above, sandwiching it between two pressure points.
The internal hand pushes up. The external hand pushes down.
And the urethral sponge, caught between them, is suddenly receiving roughly double the pressure it would receive from one hand alone.
Same effort. Twice the force on the Skene’s glands.
This is the part of the trick that almost no article will tell you. The two-hand sandwich is the move.
Where the Outside Hand Actually Goes
Specificity matters here, because vague instructions on belly pressure have historically led men to press in the wrong place, with the wrong angle, and write the technique off.
Here is the exact landmark.
Find her pubic bone with your fingers. Move upward from there about three fingers’ width. You should be in the soft area of her lower belly, well below her navel but well above her pubic mound.
That is where the heel of your palm goes.
Pressure is firm but not painful — about the same pressure you would use to press a buzzer, not the pressure you would use to perform CPR.
Direction matters: you are not pressing straight down into her abdomen. You are pressing slightly toward her feet, at maybe a 30-degree angle, so that the force translates into compression on the urethral sponge underneath rather than into her bladder.
If you are doing it right, you will feel the urethral sponge respond — a small, springy bounce against your inside fingers as the external pressure compresses the tissue.
She will feel it too. Almost every woman I have asked about this describes the moment the second hand engages as the moment the sensation shifted from “pleasant pressure” to “oh.”
I show you the exact landmark, angle, and pressure inside The Pussy Key.
Putting It Together
The complete technique, condensed.
1. Get her properly warmed up.
Clitoral orgasm first if you can. The urethral sponge engorges faster when she is already in a high-arousal state.
2. Two fingers in, palm up, on the front wall.
Same g-spot work you have already been doing. Slow, firm pressure.
3. Place your other hand on her lower belly.
Heel of palm three fingers above her pubic bone. Press firmly downward at a slight angle toward her feet.
4. Sandwich the urethral sponge between the two pressure points.
Internal hand up. External hand down. Hold the compression steady.
5. Slow, rhythmic pressure from both sides.
Internal fingers press up. Slight release. Press up again. The external hand stays steady; it does not move with the internal rhythm.
6. When she gets close, tell her to push.
Bear down. Don’t clench. The fluid needs the urethra open to release.
7. Don’t pull either hand away when she lets go.
Hold both positions steady. The release comes in waves; pulling out interrupts the wave.
Every step is demonstrated, with both performers, inside The Pussy Key.
Why This Is the One That Works
I have watched men spend years trying to make a woman squirt with a single-hand technique and never quite get there.
I have watched men learn the two-hand sandwich in one evening and get her there the same week.
The difference is not skill. It is not effort. It is not anatomy. It is a piece of mechanical information that nobody bothered to put in the standard guides.
Two hands. One above. One below.
That is the whole trick.
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Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U
