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The Sixty Seconds Almost Every Man Misses
The first time I squirted in a way that felt easy — no struggle, no concentrated effort, no man working at me for forty-five minutes — it happened in a sixty-second window that no one had ever told me existed.
I had just come. A regular orgasm. Clitoral. The kind I had been having since I was nineteen.
The man I was with did not, as most men would have, pull back to give me a minute. He didn’t ease off. He didn’t go to the kitchen for water. He stayed exactly where he was — fingers still inside me, working the front wall the way he had been before I came — and within about forty seconds I was squirting in a way I had never come close to squirting before.
Not from harder pressure. Not from more aggressive technique. From timing.
He understood something most men spend their entire sexual lives never learning, which is that the easiest minute to make a woman squirt is the minute right after she has already come.
I’m calling it the window.
And if you have been trying to make a woman squirt cold — from a flat start, with no orgasm already built — you have been working against your own anatomy.
Inside Explosive Ejaculation Stimulation, I show you exactly how to use the window — with stunning Lena Paul and Alexa Grace demonstrating in real time.
Why Squirting Cold Almost Never Works
Squirting requires the urethral sponge — the tissue on the front wall of the vagina containing the Skene’s glands — to be fully engorged with blood.
Engorgement takes time. Four to six minutes of sustained, targeted pressure, minimum. Often longer. Most men give up before they get there. And even when they don’t, the engorgement is often incomplete by the time the man’s wrist gives out or the woman’s attention drifts.
Here’s the thing nobody tells you.
Engorgement also happens, automatically and reliably, during any orgasm.
When a woman has a clitoral orgasm, blood flow to the entire genital region surges. The vulva swells. The vaginal walls flush. And the urethral sponge — sitting right there on the front wall — engorges as part of the same vascular response.
For about thirty to ninety seconds after she comes, the urethral sponge is in a fully-loaded state that, on a cold start, would have taken five minutes of focused work to reach.
Five minutes of work, available for free, in the sixty seconds after she comes.
And almost every man, when she comes, pulls back.
What He Did, and Why It Worked
Here is the specific move.
She comes on her clit. He keeps his fingers exactly where they have been — palm up, on the front wall — and does not change a thing. Same pressure. Same rhythm. Same point.
Within ten to twenty seconds of her orgasm beginning to subside, the sensation of pressure on her front wall starts to feel different. Sharper. Closer to something. She doesn’t know why, because no one ever told her this window existed either.
Within thirty seconds, the sensation builds.
Within forty-five to sixty seconds, the squirt arrives.
Not because anything has changed about the technique. Because the underlying tissue is, for this one short window, already where it needed to be the whole time.
The window closes around the ninety-second mark, as the post-orgasm vascular response subsides and the engorgement starts to drop. Past that point, you are back to cold-start territory.
But inside the window, squirting is dramatically easier than at any other moment in any other configuration.
How to Use the Window
1. Make her come first, on her clit.
Oral, fingers, vibrator — whatever gets her there reliably. The orgasm is the gateway. Don’t skip it.
2. Don’t pull back when she comes.
This is the move every man instinctively wants to make and the one that closes the window. Stay in position. Maintain the pressure. Let her ride the orgasm with your fingers still inside her.
3. As her orgasm subsides, do not change technique.
Same fingers. Same depth. Same pressure on the front wall. Do not speed up. Do not press harder. The work has already been done — by the orgasm, not by you. You are now just maintaining contact while the engorgement does what it has been waiting to do.
4. Tell her, quietly, to push.
The bear-down cue from the squirting psychology playbook. “Push into my hand. Don’t fight it.” Her body is more receptive to this instruction in the window than at any other moment, because the urethral sponge is already loaded.
5. Stay through the second wave.
When the squirt arrives — and it will — don’t pull out. The release comes in waves. Stay where you are, hold the pressure, ride them out with her.
Every step is demonstrated, with both performers, inside Explosive Ejaculation Stimulation.
Why This Becomes the Technique She Asks For Again
Most women who have tried to squirt and failed describe the same experience.
It felt close. It felt like it was about to happen. And then it didn’t.
Almost every time, what happened was that she came on her clit, the man pulled back to give her a moment, and the window closed before he could use it.
The window is the difference between a squirting orgasm that took an hour of dedicated effort and a squirting orgasm that took ninety seconds after a regular clitoral one.
Same woman. Same body. Same fingers. Different timing.
Click here to start Explosive Ejaculation Stimulation and learn how to use the window.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U
