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Upgrade your sex life

“It’s not true that I had nothing on. I had the radio on.” – Marilyn Monroe

I can’t stress this enough: you should never, absolutely never settle for ordinary sex. When temperatures are rising and clothes are falling off, it’s amazing and nobody can be blamed for getting a little hot and bothered. But sometimes, it’s the little things that will take you to the next level. Read on and borrow from these scenarios.

The getaway plan. “I’m a firm believer that vacation sex is the best kind. But my partner and I can’t afford tons of long trips, so we take mini ones. We’ll find a cheap B and B close or even rent a hotel room in our own city. Changing up the scenery relaxes us, so we get that wild, free-flowing sex we may not otherwise have.” – Sam

The pre-shower. “Most people like showering after sex, but my partner and I do so before. We wash ourselves with eucalyptus and peppermint oils – the combo of scrubbing plus steam gets our blood flowing, so by the time we get to get, we’re extra energized. Plus, we smell nice and feel soft.” – Meg

The chore chart. “My husband used to be a slacker about chores, and it annoyed me so much that I didn’t want to have sex with him. So one day, we made a chore chart of stuff that absolutely needs to get done by both of us. Now when I come home to an empty trash can, I’m so relieved I can’t help but jump him.” – Eli

The cover. “One time, my boyfriend and I were having sex at his parents’ house. I guess I was a little too loud, because he covered my mouth with his palm and kept it there until we finished. I thought it would freak me out, but it was actually hot. Now, I sometimes ask him to cover my mouth even when there’s no need to be quiet. The restraint is a big turn-on, and we’ve realized that expressing emotions with only our eyes during sex heightens the intensity and makes us feel more connected than when we’re loud.” – Mel 

The sheet treat. “When I was in college, I dated this guy who had sheets that smelled so terrible, like a combo of stale sweat and dirty socks, that I ended up dumping him. It was a complete deal breaker – talk about unsexy! So when I graduated, I decided to invest in deluxe, crisp, white, high-thread-count cotton sheets so I’d never have to deal with unsexy college-guy hookups again. I’m married now, and my husband and I bought out own fancy sheets. And I have to say, our sex life is just as deluxe. Not only the sheets motivate us to have more sex (who doesn’t want to get tangled up in nice linens), but also, we feel more adult, so we act like it too. We communicate and tell each other what feels good and what doesn’t and what we want more of. The moral: better sheets equal more (and better) sex.” – Katie

The forward approach. “Now that I’m in my 30s, I’ve realized that being direct with women is the key to better sex. I called my girlfriend the other day and said, verbatim, ‘I want to come over at 7 tonight and have sex with you.’ When I got there, I marched in and took charge. She thought it was hot because I was being dominant, and I felt powerful, which turned me on.” – Alan

The naked lunch. “My girlfriend and I make a habit of meeting for lunch-break quickies at her place. All morning, we text each other about how we can’t wait to get it on. When it’s finally time to meet, the sex is amazing because we’d anticipated it for hours.” – Brad

The shoulder move. “Clitoral stimulation always make me orgasm, but I think it’s fun to finish just from regular missionary too. I discovered an easy trick to get me there: I put both my legs up on his shoulders and lift my butt a couple of inches off the mattress. Then, I have my boyfriend thrust extra hard. My positioning creates this arch that makes it easier for him to get super deep, which does it for me. That, plus the fact that he’s thrusting extra hard, makes the end result really mind-blowing.” – Laura

The warm-up. “I was always on the fence about sex toys. I’d consider them, but then I’d think, ‘Nah, they’re not really for me. We’re fine without them’. I recently decided to be more adventurous though, so I bought my partner a vibrator online. She loves it and she thought about this awesome trick: when she knows that I’m coming over at a specific time, she turns the vibrator to the lowest speed about ten minutes before I arrive and literally just lets it sit inside her for the whole time. That way, it warms everything up down there for when I arrive. Then when I touch her and she’s already wet, it makes us both so much hornier for each other, and the sex feels more connected as a result. Also, we’ve found out that she’s more likely to orgasm during sex after she does her pre-sex vibrator warm-up.” – Dan

Have a sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. What are your very own, personal sex tips for upgrading your time between the sheets? Care to share some with the rest of us?

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