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Don’t make these beginner mistakes next time you have sex

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Don’t make these beginner mistakes next time you have sex

Don’t make these beginner mistakes next time you have sex

Most men want to believe they are absolute legends in bed. And while confidence is definitely sexy, being too sure of your moves might prevent you from learning new effective ways to satisfy your lover.

When I have conversations with my male friends about what women want and need in the bedroom, they often become defensive: “Well, that’s not always the case”, they say, trying to convince themselves that their techniques are the best.

But no one is perfect. And it’s OK to admit we still have a lot to learn when it comes to our partner’s pleasure. It’s what makes us better and better each time.

And if you think you’re doing everything right just because you haven’t had any complaints, let me tell you that women rarely complain about your performance because they simply don’t want to hurt your feelings and kill your confidence – especially if they’re in love with you.

But eventually, any woman gets tired of your amateur moves – and if she doesn’t know how to ask for what she really wants, she’ll distance herself without any explanation.

You don’t want that to happen, especially since it’s so easy to prevent this kind of gloomy scenario. Just read on to discover the beginner mistakes almost every man does and to learn how to become a better lover.

You don’t care about foreplay

Do we really have to have this conversation again? It’s 2018 and some men still don’t believe foreplay is the #1 thing a woman needs in order to build her arousal and reach orgasm. It’s very rare for a woman to climax during a “quickie”, even if this kind of experience can be very thrilling. She may love it at times, even without the orgasm, just because it’s fun and sexy, but when it becomes your main move, your sexual connection will start to fade. Learn to slow down by breathing deeply and consciously experiencing every sensation in your body. This will help you to get in sync with her body.

You ejaculate too soon

If you’re having erection problems, it’s not your fault and I’m not trying to make you feel bad about it. I’m always here to help, no matter the situation you’re going through. But if you’re doing it thinking that it’s her “duty” to “keep up with you”, then you’re missing out on the best sex of your life – not to mention your partner. Please note that it’s natural for a man to reach orgasm faster, but that doesn’t mean he can’t achieve control over his own erection in order to give his woman the same bursting pleasure he’s receiving. If you don’t want to lose your lover, learn to slow down and build your lover’s orgasmic sensations.

Now if you’re having erection problems, whether you can’t get fully hard or you can’t last long enough, I recommend you check out my program “Unbreakable Erections: Your Instant Secret to Stunning Rock-Hard Erections at Will”.

Lack of grooming or poor hygiene

If you want her to be nice and shaved down there, make sure you also invest some time in grooming and hygiene. Don’t forget that women are very sensitive to smell, so even if you think you smell fine even without taking a shower, she might not agree – and poor hygiene is the ultimate turnoff. You can easily avoid this embarrassing situation by taking a shower and grooming right before sex – this way you make sure you’re fresh&clean.

You’re TOO silent

While she doesn’t appreciate you screaming harder than her, remaining completely silent and emotionless during sex can be a serious turnoff. It’s awkward and unsexy if I may be blunt. You’ll make your partner feel like she’s not good enough or you don’t like what’s happening between you two. A few dirty words and subtle moans will show her you’re as involved as she is.

Not taking the lead

It’s fine to give her the opportunity to initiate from time to time, but if you never initiate sexy time, it might become a problem. No matter how confident, women LOVE a man who can take control between the sheets because it shows you’re strong and confident, two important qualities when it comes to mating.

If you lack confidence, start trusting your techniques by simply knowing more. Learn more about female pleasure and ask your partner about her fantasies. Simply knowing what she wants can help you become more confident about your moves.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S.: Darling, your bedroom mistakes are completely avoidable, so being able to recognize and fix them is already a huge step to improving your sex life. Stamina problems can definitely crush your confidence, but there’s a way to fix that too. Check out my program Unbreakable Erections to really become the true master of your erection. NOTE: This program was NOT developed by me.

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