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My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 12

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My Top Sex Tips – Digest # 12

There are so many things you can do to get your lover in the mood for sex, turn her on, give her amazing orgasms and spice up your sex life.  In “My Top Sex Tips” articles, I have been going through many of them, leading up to 100 amazing, sexy, hot, lovemaking, intimacy tips.

Have you tried any of them yet?

If, not what are you waiting for?

  1. Music seduction

They say that “music hath charms to sooth a savage beast”.  Music has been shown to help plants thrive and the idea that music could be used as a therapy is as old as the writings of Plato and Aristotle.  So music can have a profound affect on our psyche, moods, feelings and libido.

You can use slow, seductive music to tantalize your lover during foreplay, or grinding, pounding rock music during sex to rev it up.

Try various sexy playlists and see what effect they have on you, your lover and your love making.  Music can change a bad mood into a good one, and change good sex, into OMG great sex.

  1. Compliment her

Last week I talked about using gratitude to create more intimacy in a relationship.  This week I want to go a bit further and tell you to compliment her… Every day.

We often take the people in our lives for granted, and usually it is the most important people that we forget to thank and compliment.  We assume they know we love them, think they are sexy, so we don’t have to tell them or show it.

WRONG!  We NEED to tell our lovers every day how much they light up our lives, and compliment them.  This means telling them they look good, you love that dress on them, you love their pretty toes, or that they are sexy, but also, compliment them on the fabulous dinner they made you, or something else they are fantastic at.  Make sure it is authentic and you really believe it when you say it, but try to find reasons to compliment your lover every day.

Compliments make us feel good, which makes us much more confident and interested in having sex!

  1. Naughty notes

Leaving naughty notes for your lover a couple times a week can be hot.  And, the fun thing about this is that you can hide them away, like between the pages of her favorite book, and she may not find it for months.

Another cool way to do this, is plan a night when she is out getting groceries or chores (and you know no-one will be around when she gets home).  Then leave naughty notes (like a scavenger hunt) all around the house, each one telling her to go somewhere else (and you can leave little gifts or instructions for her like: here is some sexy lingerie… put it on).  At the end of the hunt, she will find you, all sexy (dressed up of naked) and a room made for love making awaiting her.

My husband did this for me once and it was super hot!… and fun!

  1. Go with her flow and let her show you the way

You probably get tired of being the one to ALWAYS be in charge and may like to give her the reins once in a while.  If she is not an initiator, you can still get things going, and then switch over to her, where you follow her flow and let her show you the way.

Let her show you or tell you how to turn her n.  Maybe she takes your hand and smooths it up and down her body, or says, “I’d like you to touch me there”.  Or maybe, she takes control and goes down on you, giving you a sexy blow job.  Then again, she could climb on top and ride you like a stallion, hitting her g-spot just right so she comes all over you.  Yeehaw!  Ride him cowgirl!

  1. Don’t stop during orgasm

Jeese guys!  I don’t know how many times I’ve seen or heard of this happening, but the guy stops stimulating, or changes stimulation just when she is ready to orgasm.

DON’T!

While you may us lots of variety leading up to the big event, when she gets close to orgasm (and you should be able to tell this from her moans, body language and facial expressions), don’t stop whatever it is you are doing.  Because it is that very thing that is leading her over the edge and if you stop now, she will totally loose it.

And, I don’t want to tell you how frustrating it is when you are just at the edge and then loose it.  Its not good.

So, please, if you forget every sex tip out there, don’t forget this one.  And, if you need more tips on female orgasms, check out my Orgasmic Awakening video here to learn: “How To “Unlock” Your Wife Or Girlfriend’s Orgasm So She Explodes With Pleasure Every Time You Have Sex!”

Okay sexy lover.  That’s my hot tips for you today.  Now go plan to put some of these tips into action and get it on with your lover tonight!

Until next time, stay sexy!

Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore

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  1. umanath

    January 13, 2017 at 12:05 am

    Nice advice to remember and I going to apply it on bed immediately today.thank you Gabrielle.

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