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How Important is Penis Size, Really?

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How Important is Penis Size, Really?

It’s the age old question. Does size matter? Does it? DOES IT? Someone please tell the truth here! This is a question that plagues every guy from the time they hit puberty. Boys compare themselves to each other in locker rooms and try to see how they add up. They compare themselves to unrealistic representations found in pornography (not only of size, but of a woman’s experience of sex!). All this comparing generally has one result, a lot of insecurity. There is always going to be a difference in size, just like women’s breast size varies or the shape and size of their vulvas vary, the shape, size, curve, and look of a man’s penis will also vary.

The Stats

  • It’s estimated that about two thirds of men worry about penis size or shape.
  • If you look at what doctors report is the average penis size, they say it’s between 5.5 and 6.3 inches.
  • Men state that penis size is the third most important physical characteristic. Women, on the other hand, report that it is the ninth most important.

These stats should tell you a little bit about the importance of penis size. While men obsess over its importance, women rate it way further down the list.


The Real Deal

  • Not every woman wants a huge penis. Not every woman wants a large penis. In fact, many women don’t enjoy sex with a very well endowed man. It hurts and it makes certain positions and sexual acts impossible.
  • Men with small or more average sized penises often overcompensate for their size by becoming amazing lovers who really focus on pleasing their partners. While I believe that this “overcompensation” is completely unnecessary, it’s still a great benefit. Guys with a big dick might think they have it made. All they need to do is stick it in and the woman is moaning like crazy, but if you have learned anything from my site, I hope it is what a huge myth that is! No matter what your size is, you have to put time and effort into pleasing a woman. A guy who is worried he might need to make up for something is more likely to work at it than a guy who thinks he already has everything a woman wants.
  • Giving oral sex is also much more enjoyable for the partner of a guy with an average or smaller penis. She can really deep throat you without being seriously uncomfortable. That is a win-win situation.
  • Anal sex is more likely, comfortable, and enjoyable for her. Think about it. Even for a woman who loves anal sex, would she really want a giant penis in that small hole, or would a regular sized or smaller penis do the job and feel a million times better? I would say the latter.
  • With a smaller penis you have a better chance at G spot stimulation with your penis instead of your hand. A larger penis will go too deep to be able to properly hit that spot, but if your penis is smaller, it’s more likely to come into contact with the G spot naturally.
  • Use sex positions that allow you to go even deeper and that allow for clitoral stimulation (I have articles on this!). Nothing will hold you back from trying any position. She will never worry that you will hurt her by going way too deep. It will be just right and oh so good!

 

The absolute number one skill you can learn in the bedroom is confidence. No matter what size you are, if you lack confidence in yourself or your skills, it’s going to show when she is in bed with you. On the other hand, a confident guy will wow a woman in bed, no matter what he’s packing in his Levi’s.

 

Happy playing, boys!
Gabrielle Moore

PS: Share your size and sex concerns below. You’ll be surprised that most guys worry about the same things you do.

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10 Comments

  1. Mark Jackson

    October 2, 2014 at 9:28 pm

    I gotta say thank you for this article. My girlfriend and I have had this talk about the size of my penis. She says it is perfect and loves it. Her G-spot is always hit and she has no shortage of orgasms. Yes, I am a firm believer in fore play and giving her oral sex. And she enjoys going down on me as well because I am not porn star sized.She has honestly told me that guys with a big/huge slong does not feel good and all the pleasure absent because it does hurt. So guys don’t worry. I am 5.5 inches long fair girth. Not the size but the motion.

  2. john

    October 3, 2014 at 1:37 am

    I know your right about size my wife has put my worries to rest about having a less than average size. She loves it just the way it is and i can tell i hit her G spot in some positions that we both like because of her reaction and breathing and the little sounds she makes. I have openly told her i was not happy if she wasn’t but i have always got the same answer every time .just keep doing what your doing i am very happy any way i don’t need a big dick to satisfy me she said.We have been married for 25 years and i do believe if there was a problem with my size it would have come up by now from her not just me thinking there was a problem when there wasn’t So all you guys out there don’t worry just do everything you can to please her and you will be happy as she is

  3. amy

    October 3, 2014 at 1:42 am

    It is 4.5″ After erected, I also think to have it at-least 6″. Can I improve its length. Shall the use of penis sleeve be okay.

  4. lanai

    October 3, 2014 at 1:43 am

    Ah..the size!
    Way to go in the head!
    Is it really matter?
    When satisfaction is the key

    Women may not like it
    But men have the image
    The confidence booster they claim
    Hitting it off the way they think

    The fallacy never shrink the men
    They still go into their minds
    The big thing the fly
    If only they learn the foreplay well

    No matter how positive the value is
    The men always feel inadequate
    They measured it through the pole
    By it the confidence booster

    Men spend large amount of money
    Of time and energy to boost their confidence
    Of penis enlargement exercises and pills
    Feeling the soaring eagles in their minds

  5. jeff peters

    October 3, 2014 at 3:40 am

    whatever, I can assure you, from a guys perspective having a BIG Dick is much more satisfying than trying to fuck with a small one, whether she likes it or not.

  6. Dewale

    October 3, 2014 at 6:48 am

    Educative and factual

  7. bhoot

    October 3, 2014 at 9:24 am

    I have only 3.5inch pennis size,it is right or rong

  8. stuart

    October 3, 2014 at 11:00 am

    Your right, I have a 7 inch dick, and when I xtra aroused it has gotten to10+. Had to take picture because urologist didnt believe me. If you want I can send pictures. It hurts when that happens. Anyway been married 2xs and both had problems with it hurting. Had to work on not putting it in all the way. And positions where it wouldnt be as deep. Had to wear a device called a dounot to prevent it from deep penitrataionasa

  9. John

    October 3, 2014 at 10:40 pm

    I am married and have been for the past 23 years. I have the sex drive of a 20 year old and love to do oral on my wife. However, she has the sex drive of an 80 year old and we only have sex once every two or three WEEKS. My penis is only 5.5 inches long so I know I’m not tearing her up. It has been like this for the past 10 years. I had an affair about a year ago and loved it. The woman I was with loved sex as much as I did. We stayed in 69 position for about 45 minutes where I came once down her throat and she came about 5 or 6 times. After that she got on top and road my for about 10 minutes and then I pushed her into doggie and we did it there for another 10 minutes then I came inside her where she told me to. I have been wanting some more of that from my wife but like I said I only get it once every 2 or 3 weeks. What say you?

  10. singh

    October 6, 2014 at 8:11 am

    how to improve sex time limit

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