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Make Foreplay Last Longer

What does foreplay mean to you? A minute of kissing and rubbing before diving in headfirst? Even if you engage in foreplay with your partner, it probably doesn’t last that long. I get it – you want to skip right to the good part… but it won’t be good for either of you if you don’t put in the time to get both of you worked up. It’s like driving a car – if you don’t let it warm up first it’s going to stall. And so will your girl!

Foreplay is an important ingredient of having a satisfying, healthy sex life. It helps you stay connected with your spouse, it allows for sexual exploration, and most of all, it feels good! So here is some advice on how to make foreplay last longer.

Slow it down
Stop rushing. Take your time. This isn’t a race. The first one done does NOT win the prize!

Foreplay should be exactly how it sounds: play. You wouldn’t rush through a game of cops and robbers so stop rushing through licks and fondles. Enjoy yourself. Take a few minutes to give some attention to each of her seven erogenous zones. (Yes, boys, there are seven!)

Focus on the unconventional
I know you wanna go straight to those tried-and-true hotspots (breasts and nether regions) but they’ve been tried and it’s time to think outside the box (pun intended). Kiss and caress her neck, ears and shoulders. Let your hands glide up and down her legs. Give her a foot massage (or take that big leap and go for some foot-oral action). Stray from the norm and see how excited you will both get.

Start earlier
Stop having sex for the few minutes before your heads hit the pillows. Set the PVR to tape the end of the game or her episode of Gossip Girl” and try heading to the bedroom a little earlier. Hopefully you’ll feel less inclined to speed through things.

I hated a guy who had an extremely stressful job and would start dozing by 8pm – all of our sexual escapades were these hurried romps quickly followed by snoring. SO I’d start to titillate and tease around 7pm – even if Family Guy was on he couldn’t ignore my hand sliding down his pants, and before long, foreplay was lasting longer that Stewie’s rants. Switch up your sex routine. Stray from the norm. Be impulsive.

Break out the sex toys
If you’re breezing through foreplay because you’re out of new ways to excite your other half, make foreplay last longer by bringing some toys into the mix. They’ll help you with the exploring, experimenting, and longer-lasting pre-sex fun.

I’m a big fan of vibrators (as are my fellow girls), and they come in all shapes and sizes, providing a wide range of sensations, meaning she won’t tire of it very soon. Handcuffs, blindfolds, and ticklers are also a lot of fun.

For more foreplay advice on how to have GREAT sex, click here!

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  1. Anthony

    November 29, 2010 at 11:32 pm

    you know your stuff, thank you so much. I wished I could afford your books, but I can’t. I love my beautiful woman and love to please her and Iam doing great with your points for pleasuring her. I don’t want to lose her just because of sex, so I want to learn all I can to keep her in my bed and with me.
    Thank you so much

  2. craig

    November 29, 2010 at 11:34 pm

    Gabrielle……What timing last nite we did just that explore and kissing of the neck ears back massages and then little pinches around her hot spot and rubbing her very inner leg so close it drove her crazy I was sitting up facing her wile she layed on her backexspoing every part of her self and man just took my time and all in all it was great and our little bed fun lasted for three hours because I was just taking my time and doing all the exploreing I could do and then the body glide came out and her toy….but wow it was great………but one thing I have to get her to start getting more involved on her part to me but I don’t mind cause to me its all about her when we are having sex……..Thank you for all the tips

  3. amiboo

    November 30, 2010 at 2:36 am

    These are great tips! My husband and I started having sex earlier in the evening a few years ago. It’s so much better when we still have energy. We take our time and savor it all.

    Sex toys are great too. We use various things on each other and it’s been great.

  4. bruce

    November 30, 2010 at 4:02 am

    All I can say is WOW. Reading and appling what you wrote was a life changing experiance. Evean at 53. The slower I go the beter every thing is. I admit I was the guy to get er done so to speak so i could sleep as work the next day. Guys turn off the boob tube and turn on your woman. I can not aford the book but if you can it will be a life changing experance for you. We all say we wish we could read her mind. Lol gabriel did it for us. But I will caution you. If u make buble bath with candels folowed by glass of wine then give her a Nice romatic masage and take your time kissing her all vere bfor you even come near her honey pot she will Grab you and say quit teasing me. Lol now it becomes more fun watching her squirm as you slowly move in but be prepaired if your not in shape because they find energy you never new they had and after words she will treat you oh so diferent the next few days as you rocked her world . Thank you Gabliel and when I get another job Im going to purchase all your videos and books. Their a marriage savor and life is full of love and romance again.

  5. penny

    November 30, 2010 at 8:01 am

    this has taught me more about how to make love. my husband and I are now having a very good sex life.

    keep up telling us more.

    thank you very much!

  6. Mbali

    November 30, 2010 at 8:45 am

    Gabbie you are the goddess of enjoyment in my love know your status…this s super charging and mind blowing …I am going to buy your videos and books if I did receive credit card….

  7. Roberto

    November 30, 2010 at 5:38 pm

    I know that many women are big fans of various types of vibrators and toys for masturbation. I just can’t seem to wrap-my-head around this idea when I am with a woman.
    I rely on Tantric Massage,(light-energy orgasms?), using my fingers, penis and bringing her to higher levels of sexuality by using dirty talk and sex fantasy stories. Her sexual imagination is very important for her to go to higher levels of sexuality.

  8. dasani

    November 30, 2010 at 9:07 pm

    good job Gabby. I hav been practising all your tips that i hav laid hands on, and my woman thinks i am just wonderful.
    keep it up, Gabby.

  9. Dave

    November 30, 2010 at 10:19 pm

    Hello & happy holidays to all,I came across this site and wanted to check it out I don’t have a problem taken care of my wife (she is satisfied)I’m just always looking for a new way to spice it up so thank you in advance for anything I do come across to keep it going and going and going

  10. munir adnan

    December 1, 2010 at 12:11 pm

    i hate these tips, i think man want to be natural to his sex behaviours and leave it,because it is always god gifted techniques given to any one in this perspective
    but only one thing i like is that take ur time or slow it down it is really interesting…………………………

  11. irvin

    December 1, 2010 at 3:41 pm

    Hello, i just want to infor you that your advices really work and also my techniques are impriving.
    thank you.

  12. Legagaripa

    December 15, 2010 at 11:31 am

    Big up 2 u Gabby. Yo sex lessons are very useful. Thy ar precise and acurate. Thru them, Um able 2 pleasure any gal I make love with. And thy olwys wnt 2 cum 4 som mor!

  13. james

    December 17, 2010 at 11:08 am

    kissing her neck, ears, and rubbing her her bumbs , and kissing in very slow motion, plus very long kissing is always helps my partners enjoys the memoments with me, then finally screams & begging for more when they’re abt to come,,, usually , i like do alot giving foreplys rather than taking it,,, because i know men ‘s are easy to come whereas, ladies , its pretty much of secrets of deep deep ocean .. i like lick their annus to clitories ,, by taking my own time very slowly.. and let the ladies suffer not in pain but world of pleasure…usually at this moments the gals will beg for my little johns so that they can have good suck while they’re nearing to thier big-O

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