Orgasm – that one word can bring feelings of immense pleasure to those who come by them easily, but it often only strikes fear and desperate anxiety in the hearts of anorgasmic women who spend their time and energy trying to “fix” a part of them...
“There is the pleasurable orgasm, like a rising sales graph, and there is the unpleasurable orgasm, slumping ominously like the Dow Jones in 1929.”- William S. Burroughs Making sure that your girlfriend or wife has a body-numbing orgasm shouldn’t...
“The orgasm is simply when the body does take over”– Betty Dodson You like sex. It’s hardwired into your brain somewhere between your ability to wee standing up and your fear of commitment. You like it quick, slow, rushed, dirty, drunk and...
“Love is a matter of chemistry, but sex is a matter of physics.” Men tell me that almost anything can turn them on—a simple brush of their partner’s hand across their penis, a flirtatious look or seeing their partner in the nude. What they don’t...
“Sex is more than an act of pleasure… it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them...
“Kinky is using a feather. Perverted is using the whole chicken.” When you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, it’s easy for things to become routine, including your sex life. If things have gotten a bit ho-hum, then the chances are good that...
“Don’t worry, it only seems kinky the first time.” Men love to fantasize about anal sex! I think it’s because anal play seems very taboo, and therefore exotic. We all want what we can’t have, right? But even if you’re into anal, you probably...
“Sex pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.” —Simone de Beauvoir A lot of men seem to think that the one sure-fire way to bring their lover to...
“It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover.” —Marge Piercy I was talking to a group of women the other day about sexual positions that worked well for them, and they all agreed—any position can work if you’re with a man who knows what...
“Happiness isn’t about the destination, but the journey.” Did you know that women don’t think of foreplay as something you do before sex? For most women, foreplay is sex! If you rush through foreplay, you’re cutting out most of the fun...