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Foreplay: The most enjoyable route to female orgasm

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Foreplay: The most enjoyable route to female orgasm

“Happiness isn’t about the destination, but the journey.”

Did you know that women don’t think of foreplay as something you do before sex? For most women, foreplay is sex! If you rush through foreplay, you’re cutting out most of the fun for her, so take your time. Don’t think of foreplay as a chore, but as a sexual tour full of pleasurable surprises.

The Primary Rule of Foreplay

Foreplay is all about creating and building arousal, so when you’re trying to arouse your partner, keep in mind the main rule of foreplay: No genital contact! This rule might seem strange, but it makes sense when you think about it. If you “go for the gold” too fast, your partner won’t have enough time to become fully excited, and her body and mind won’t be ready for penetration. Instead of engaging in oral or hand play, try a few of these teasing moves.

Compliment Her

As I’ve said, a woman’s brain is her most sensitive sexual organ. Before you even touch her, stimulate her mind by telling her how sexy she is and how much you love her. Knowing how special you think she is will excite her more than anything you do with your hands or body.

Talk Dirty to Her

After you’ve sweetened her up, get a little dirty. Unless she likes it, don’t use profanity or obscene language. Instead, tell her what you want to do to her or how excited you feel just looking at her. These kinds of comments will get her thinking about how good she’s going to feel when you make love to her.

Gently Touch Her

By “gently,” I mean just that. Foreplay is not the time for aggressive moves! Play with her hair or nibble her ear. Run your fingers over her arms and shoulders. Use your hands to let her know how arousing she is.

Kiss Her

Kissing is vastly underrated, especially with couples who have been together a long time. But there’s no better way to communicate your desire and fuel hers by kissing her neck and lips. Start softly, and as things heat up, kiss her more deeply.

Give Her a Bath

One of my favorite sensations is having a man shampoo my hair and sensually wash my body. If your bathtub isn’t roomy enough for two, run a hot shower and step in with her. After you lather her up and rinse her off, she will probably do the same for you, ensuring you’re both squeaky clean before getting dirty all over again.

Massage Her

Women carry a lot of stress in their necks, backs and shoulders, which can make it difficult for them to relax during sex. Give her a gentle, thorough back rub, kneading out the knots in her upper body. If she’s amenable, use scented oil and continue massaging the rest of her body: her legs, arms, belly and buttocks. Leave her breasts and vagina alone for now—that part comes later!

Explore Her Erogenous Zones

Every woman’s body is a different map to pleasure. Although some erogenous zones are common to all women—breasts, neck and inner thighs—your partner may have a few other spots that need tantalizing. Explore her body with light, gentle caresses, paying careful attention to her response. If you happen on an area that makes her toes curl, you’ve struck gold!

Tease Her with Partial Penetration

When she’s breathing hard, flushed with desire and physically responding to your caresses, tease her by slipping the first inch or two of your penis in and out of her vagina and tickling her clitoris with the head of your penis. If she asks you what you’re waiting for, simply reply, “I’m waiting until you want to feel me inside you.”

Every woman is different, but a few moves are guaranteed to please almost every lady. As you engage her in foreplay, the most important thing to do is pay attention. If you notice something isn’t working, stop what you’re doing, and try something else. Seeming too persistent or giving her unwanted attention is the fastest way to kill the mood.

Once she’s become fully aroused, only then are you allowed to touch her genitals. Engage in manual play, oral sex or full penetration. Even if she doesn’t reach orgasm, she’ll have a wonderful time—and so will you!

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  1. julie

    April 5, 2011 at 1:12 am

    Ok, I’m already wet & aching for my man’s huge rock & I was just reading the suggestions & tantalizing about how I feel when my wonderful lover excites me in ALL those ways. Men take note, you’ll never get away from your woman if you show her all these loving gestures.

  2. moka

    April 5, 2011 at 1:57 am

    Hi, can you go over techniques as to why I loose an erection as soon as I start warrying with the condoms hard to open package and also miss putting the condom right it is stressing

  3. Mario

    April 5, 2011 at 2:58 am

    Thank you Gabrielle. Very nice tips and a very interesting approach to how to ‘get the gold’ in a very civilized way. Bet Regards.

  4. Kazam

    April 5, 2011 at 7:17 am

    Thank you Gabrielle. thank you so mach

  5. lucky

    April 5, 2011 at 8:47 am

    I admire your work Gabrielle, your thorough studies of both the male and the female species is rather fruitfull to us.
    now i can make my giel friend rip off the bedding with tremendous orgasms.

  6. abraham

    April 5, 2011 at 9:38 am

    Fingure play is the best women like.Orgasam will come out at every movement


    April 5, 2011 at 11:05 am

    Thank you Gabs, I you are truely a star, may I ask you out, just once pliz

  8. Min

    April 5, 2011 at 2:34 pm

    Thank you.

  9. Deepak

    April 5, 2011 at 4:01 pm

    Thanks Garbiele. This is the best n usefull tips before sexual intercourse. Very nice,keep it up. Give some more tips how to erect penis for more time. Is there any general medicines,not harmful.

  10. Shari

    April 6, 2011 at 1:11 am

    Every single one of these is spot on! Men have the idea that having a huge dick is what they need to please a woman but in fact it’s skillful foreplay. I bet if we took a poll it would show at least 90% of women would take foreplay over a big dick everytime.

    Just today the DJs on the radio station I listen to were discussing brushing hair. One of them said that brushing a woman’s hair is a good way to get her in the mood and the other said “What, really?” all the women who responded said YES!

    Men generally don’t understand how important this is. My husband is a very generous lover and even with him I have to remind him from time to time that I need to be worshiped now and then. LOL Quickies also have their place but long, leisurely sessions should not be forgotten.

  11. res

    April 6, 2011 at 5:54 am

    Mhhh very nice tips…as i use them my baby becomes so excited..its really nice..Thank you

  12. Johny

    April 6, 2011 at 1:34 pm

    Thank for all the tips it been great help but I am still struggling to get her to beg for more. We do it once a week and i would like to do it every day, any suggestions welcome, which would be the most relevant book for me


  13. Nda

    April 6, 2011 at 2:42 pm

    This extremely wonderful I must try it tonight.

  14. Paul

    April 6, 2011 at 5:39 pm

    Thanks Gabi 4 he info.


    Hot Stuff, jst wht I needed.

    Cnt wait to hv fun, jus the two of us, me n ha.

    Ur the boooooommmmmmmmm…………


  15. Auxtin

    April 7, 2011 at 6:04 am

    oh dear gabr.u added more pulse 2 my nerves gra8 work. my mail is alway open 2 ur lve. u are welcome!

  16. mamunananta

    April 8, 2011 at 4:39 am

    tks a lot 4 each msg.ur help tips is jst fantastic.

  17. cabage

    April 8, 2011 at 5:30 pm

    I love u. I know u loves all the human. Your technics changes my happiness wonderful. I love u

  18. Acid

    April 9, 2011 at 2:53 am

    I wish she’s right here with me right na ….mmmmmhhhhhuuuuu….cool!! Thankx,.

    Can i ask you some tips not to cum early?

  19. Francis Radice

    April 9, 2011 at 5:43 pm

    Thanks a thousand for all the advice. I now spend a lot of time on foreplay, massaging and caressing. The great news is that there are so many ways to improve and surprise and delight one’s partner.

    These days I often find it hard to achieve orgasm myself so my main pleasure is giving my woman pleasure. Have you any suggestions on orgasms?

  20. juicy

    April 10, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    i have tried many of ur and have always enjoyed having fulllllllllllll orgasm

  21. sumit

    April 11, 2011 at 3:04 am

    good post

  22. sooma

    April 12, 2011 at 7:21 am

    waw gabi i think your woman will be the most lukky at the world she will visit hte world of orgasm thousand a day

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