Pleasurable but Not Orgasmic: 8 Things

Huge emphasis on “probably.”

Every woman is different and everyone reacts differently, so there’s no guarantee these things won’t push her over the edge, though it’s a far stretch to be honest. It’s true, some women will climax from a a couple of expertly maneuvered fingers but others – most of them, actually – take a lot more coaxing. But if you’re trying to make her feel good without ending things too early for either of you, there are a few things you can try. Bonus? All these will make for a hell of a pleasurable foreplay and a truly spectacular finish when the time comes.

Using just your tongue during oral sex. If she’s extra-sensitive, licking up and down her labia or clitoris can drive her nuts, so be careful with that. However, for most women in order to orgasm during oral sex they need a combination of tongue, lips and fingers, so using just one you’re making sure she’s not orgasmig before you go to vaginal intercourse.
Playing with her nipples. Some women hate this. Don’t just saunter on up to your lady’s tatas mouth agape like everything is fine. Work up to it, and if she’s not into it, she’ll let you know. But if she likes it, you can tease her without worrying that her vagina will end up exploding too early.
Giving each other intimate massages. Get naked, grab some oil, mentally prepare yourselves to wash your sheets afterward, and rub up on each other. It’s sexy, it’s fun, it feels really good. But it probably won’t be enough for her to orgasm. Unless you decide to treat her with a happy ending after all the rubbing. In which case, she’s probably going to come really fast.
Trying her, like, sixth-favorite sex position for a while. It’s entirely possible she has a sex position or two that isn’t her ultimate, gets-her-there-every-time move. Maybe it’s the angle or a position where she can’t control the pace as easily. Whatever it is, if you’re into it, try it for a few minutes to start, it’ll still feel great (come on, it’s sex), but you can hump away without worrying that she’ll finish any time soon.
Using your fingers — everywhere. Trace a finger around her hips, pelvis, and vagina. It feels great but it won’t be enough for her to climax. It will only turn her on just enough for her body to be completely prepared and ready to go for when main course finally arrives.
Going to town on her clitoris. This can feel really good for her. Gently stroking her clit with your pinkie or some controlled licking can drive her nuts, but doesn’t provide enough friction for her to finish before you’ve been equally satisfied yourself.
Trying a rim job. It’s 2017; everyone is eating butt hole. OK, not everyone, but anal stimulation for straight women isn’t as taboo as it used to be. If she’s down for it and you’re down for it, make sure she’s clean down there first and then have some mouthwash handy for after.
And last, don’t forget about some of the often-forgotten erogenous zones. Kissing and biting her neck and earlobes might not be the most exciting thing you can do to her, but they’re still erogenous zones on the female body. Everyone’s body is different, and you’d be surprised what areas can drive someone crazy with even the slightest tickle. Explore a bit.