Fingering isn’t foreplay—it’s penetration. More precisely, it’s usually the first time you go inside her. It’s the moment her body opens—and her trust follows.
That moment determines everything. If your fingers create pleasure, she’ll beg for more. But if they hurt, itch, or sting, her body will close—and so will the night.
Most men underestimate how much this matters.
That’s why fingering prep isn’t optional. It’s essential.
She Feels Everything
The vagina is one of the most sensitive zones on a woman’s body. It’s lined with mucosal tissue—soft, delicate, and highly absorbent, like the inside of your mouth.
Which means she feels everything:
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- Even slightly sharp nails during fingering can cause microtears
- A trace of cologne or sanitizer on your fingers? Stinging pain
- Dirty hands exploring her? Disrupted pH, possible infection
That’s what prep does. It turns fingering from a careless fumble into a moment of erotic surrender. The difference is night and day.
Even subtle irritants can kill her arousal in an instant. And once her body tenses, it’s nearly impossible to get her back to where she was.
Your touch is the first penetration. It should never cause pain.
Inside Double Fingering Delight, I show you how to prepare and perform fingering with complete mastery—especially with Jade’s tight body and Karla’s curves.
The Chicken Wings Story
One of my students learned this lesson the hard way.
He took a woman out to dinner. The flirting was hot, the connection real. He ordered spicy chicken wings—nothing extreme. Hours later, she came back to his place. Clothes came off. She straddled him, dripping with anticipation.
Then came the moment. He slipped his fingers inside her…
And she jumped like she’d been stung.
Not by pleasure—but by fire. Her face contorted. She ran to the bathroom. And stayed there for twenty minutes.
What happened?
He hadn’t drenched his hands in hot sauce. But he hadn’t washed thoroughly either. A trace of spice remained. Just enough for her highly sensitive tissue to feel it immediately.
That’s all it took to ruin everything.
She wasn’t the only one.
Another woman told me her partner used hand sanitizer moments before fingering her. The alcohol residue caused sharp stinging. Others described being scratched by rough nails—some even bled.
These aren’t rare stories. They’re common. And the science backs it up:
- The vaginal lining is permeable and extremely reactive
- Even minor irritants can cause pain, inflammation, and destroy arousal
- According to the Journal of Lower Genital Tract Disease, abrasions and pH imbalances can increase risk of infection and reduce comfort
When you neglect prep, she doesn’t feel wanted—she feels wounded.
And when that happens, she won’t come back for more.
Are your fingers ready? Watch me demonstrate the prep and double insertion technique with Jade and Karla inside Double Fingering Delight.
The Ultimate Fingering Prep Checklist (for Men Who Know)
Want her to crave your fingers? Start here.
✓ Trim your nails—smooth and rounded.
Use clippers and a file. Edges matter more than length.
✓ Wash your hands—but skip sanitizer.
Soap and water is perfect. Avoid spicy residue (chili, pepper) or strong colognes.
✓ Buff or file rough skin.
The pads of your fingers should glide, not scrape.
✓ Remove rings and jewelry.
Even smooth rings can pinch or carry bacteria.
✓ Warm your hands.
Cold fingers? Instant turn-off. Rub them together or hold them under warm water.
✓ Use body-safe lube.
Water-based is ideal. A drop on your fingers can transform her pleasure.
✓ Check your mindset.
Be present. Be patient. Her body will tell you everything—if you’re listening.
These small moves change everything.
And the moment you apply them to two fingers inside her, while watching her moan and melt? That’s when you become unforgettable.
Are your fingers ready?
Fingering is one of the best tricks in the book for any man. Women love it. It’s practical. You can do it anywhere. You can use it to give yourself a break during sex. It can give her orgasms that penetration alone can’t.
It’s a versatile, powerful tool of pleasure—but only if you do it right.
When your fingers are properly prepped, when your technique is intentional, when your presence is fully focused on her pleasure—she will melt for you.
Watch my explicit video demonstration where I show you exactly how, with your now-prepped hands, you can give her multiple orgasms using both hands. Fingering done right isn’t just foreplay—it’s a game-changer.
Click here to watch the full Double Fingering Delight video course.*
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U
