If you and your partner are wild for oral sex, you’re going to love the intense sensations G-Spot stimulation will add when you’re pleasuring her. The combination of cunnilingus and G-Spot pressure takes oral sex to a new level, giving it depth and intensity that will give her a shattering orgasm.
You’ll be close to the action, so you’ll be able to observe how your touch affects her and modify your actions until you find the perfect combination. Make sure you’re physically comfortable because you’re going to be down there a long time—and loving every second of it. Here’s what to do…
- Gently spread her labia and kiss her clitoris. Begin to tongue it a little, getting the area moist and slippery. Gently nibble her if she likes it.
- As you focus on her clitoris, use different strokes to stimulate her. Small, tight circles feel wonderful, as do brief lapping motions. Try the finger techniques I described in the sidebar; many work well for oral stimulation as well.
- Not many women like a sloppy, mushy clitoral kiss, so try to keep your tongue firm as you lick her. Vary the pressure and intensity according her body language, or ask her to let you know when she needs more or less.
- Use your tongue on other areas of her vagina, like her inner and outer labia. Nuzzle, nibble and tongue her there. You might even start penetrating her with your tongue. A brief break from clitoral stimulation can arouse her even more—she’ll be dying for you to get back to it.
- Begin licking her clitoris again, and insert a finger into her vagina. Stroke in and out a few times, and then add a second finger. Touch her G-Spot. If it’s engorged and sensitive, she’s ready for you to incorporate G-Spot play. If not, continue with your oral foreplay.
- As you continue to lick her clitoris, curve your two fingers upward and apply pressure to her G-Spot. Match the intensity of your tongue licks with the pressure you’re applying to her G-Spot.
- When you can tell she’s getting close to coming, try a technique that drives me wild. Rapidly and firmly lick her clitoris as you press into her G-Spot, pressing with the same rhythm as your tongue. Continue this move until she explodes.
Before you begin with G-Spot play, spend time giving her purely oral pleasure. Don’t rush it—take your time. You may even want to bring her to the edge, and then stop, a tantalizing move that gives her an explosive orgasm when you finally allow her to have one.
Are You Orally Ambidextrous?
A G-Spot vibrator or dildo can add an erotic variation to oral G-Spot sex. Since you’ll need a fair amount of expertise in oral G-Spot play before you can do two things at once, I recommend that you master oral play before you charge thing up with toys.
When you are ready, use a sex toy specifically designed to hit her spot. G-Spot vibrators and dildos have a curved tip you can use to apply that firm, constant pressure she needs — plus, it incorporates vibrating waves of pleasure.
If she finds that vibes add too much stimulation — some women are very sensitive — then you might try a G-Spot dildo. The design is similar to a G-Spot vibe, but without the vibrations. Apply the curved tip to her G-Spot as you lick her clit, and she’ll soon be writhing with pleasure.
Although my techniques usually work for most women, your lover’s needs and preferences might vary. She might take only a few minutes to get off, or she might need as much as an hour before she can come. Some strokes may make her giddy, while others leave her cold. She might prefer light play or a deep, intense experience.
The point I’m making is that even if you follow my advice to the very word, your lady might need something different when you give her cunnilingus. Experiment with different techniques until you find something that gives her a rollicking orgasm.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S.: Baby, these powerful orgasms are a gift you should exchange more often as a couple. Even if she never talks about it, the G-spot orgasm becomes more and more intriguing as a lot of her friends mention it – so I want you to be able to give her that in ways no other man could! Check out my steamy program called “G-spot Orgasms Made Easy” to discover the easiest techniques to stimulate this amazing sweet spot!
