“She craved the type of passion that even brought the devil down to his knees.”
Bad boys are legendary – a woman who’s been with one practically passes out from bliss when she talks about her experience. You might be thinking, “Who, me? Be bad boy?” But any man who wants to can wake up his hibernating alpha male… and have a good time doing it. See, bed-devil status is about a fearless attitude, not how much sexual experience you have or whether you wear leather. Women dig when guys are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want. While you’re probably eager to meet the bad boy inside, you may not be exactly sure where to start. If you think you can handle the heat, try one of these no-holds-barred ways to get very dirty.
A wickedly sexy man knows how to deliciously exploit the power he has over a woman. Tell you partner to lie down on the bed, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether her hands together so she can’t touch you. If you’re not game to use real restraints, you can simply hold her hands over her head. Next, you want to torture her playfully with your teasing. Slowly kiss your way down her torso, and just as you get to her pelvis, move back to her ears and neck. As you tantalize her and she strains to touch you, ask her to tell you why she wants you so bad, explaining that you won’t let her free until she convinces you. Once she’s pleaded her case, release her hands and allow her to take over. After building up the erotic anticipation, it will be like setting a windup toy loose on your body… and hearing her describe how hot you are will turbocharge your experience too.
Moans and sighs are easy. It’s the dirty dialogue that really puts a triple X stamp on your sex sessions. Talking dirty heightens the whole experience, keeps you both present, and turns you on even more. Plus, women actually like being told what to do in bed because it helps them get it right. First tell her how freakin’ good she feels. (Tongue-tied? Try no-fail lines like “You feel so/You make me [adjective]”; “I love it when you[verb] my [body part].”) Then you’re set to show her the way to send you soaring, with something like, “Oooh, almost there. I need your [noun] on my [body part], just like this.”
Body confidence and carnal curiosity are key traits of a sex god, and both are on full display when you make a sex tape. Seeing yourselves midact gives you a voyeuristic thrill, almost as though you’re peeping into your own bedroom. It feels taboo. You also get to see how your partner is responding and how you look when you’re getting off. If you’re partner is worried about becoming the next Kim Kardashian, skip the tape and just hook the video camera directly up to a television in your bedroom – without recording – and watch yourselves while you’re going at it. Since missionary doesn’t exactly make for good TV, get into racier positions where you’re facing the camera. Go for doggie-style so you can both see the action or girl on top so you can watch exactly how she moves. And definitely get shots exchanging oral sex so you can see the orgasmic effect you have on each other.
Breaking out of your touch-there-then-lick-there routine adds a lusty layer to the erotic experience. And fearless sexual playmates know that unexpectedly intense sexual maneuvers are even more exciting. A forceful touch snaps your partner into the moment and heightens every sensation that follows. The spontaneity also keeps her anticipating each touch, magnifying her excitement. Plus, the implied roughness invites her to tap into her primal, wild sexual self. Grip her butt hard while in missionary, scratch the sides of her torso while in girl-on-top, or yank her head toward you to give her a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss. If those moves elicit an excited response, gently spank her butt, lightly bite her shoulder, or tug her hair in the act, you devilish thing.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Being bold in the bedroom is the way to go if you’ve been feeling kind of low on the erotic front. If you enjoyed my tips of the trade, find more by clicking this link.
