Make Her Surrender With One Dominant Move
Have you ever wanted to feel her entire body surrender under your hands—to watch her melt with pleasure, to know she trusts your lead so completely she can’t help but moan your name? This is one of my favorite positions for a reason. It’s the epitome of masculine dominance: powerful, deep, and absolutely unforgettable.
I get wet just thinking about it. Because when a man takes control with the Butterfly Position, it triggers something primal in a woman. And today, I’ll show you exactly how to master it.
Why the Butterfly Is the Ultimate Dominant Position
In the Butterfly, she’s lying on the edge of the bed, her hips lifted, legs spread, and you’re standing in front of her. You’re not just inside her—you’re holding her entire lower body in your hands. You set the rhythm, the depth, the pace. She can’t escape. And that’s what makes it so intoxicating for both of you.
From a woman’s perspective? This position makes us feel your strength. We know we’re in your control. We know you’re leading—and that is the heart of dominance.
👉 Want to see exactly how to guide her into this position and keep her begging? Watch Aj Applegate and Sandy Fantasy surrender to it inside The Alpha Lover. Watch it here.
Why Dominance Sparks Love and Respect
Women are wired to crave a man who can lead. In life, yes—but especially in bed. When you make decisions confidently, when you take charge of dinner plans or life goals, it builds our trust.
But nothing proves your leadership more than what you do between the sheets. When you dominate her body with skill and intention, you trigger deep parts of her brain to bond with you—to respect you—even to love you. It’s instinctual. It’s primal. And it’s why a strong, skilled lover becomes unforgettable.
Why the Butterfly Feels So Good (For Both of You)
The Butterfly isn’t just dominant—it’s designed for maximum pleasure:
- Deep penetration: This position opens her hips, letting you hit angles that press against her G-spot with every thrust.
- Total control: You’re literally holding her hips, letting you adjust depth, speed, and pressure on a whim.
- Visual feast: You can see everything—the way her face contorts in bliss, the arch of her back, the shudder of her thighs.
When you do it right, every thrust drives her deeper into surrender—and deeper into craving you.
👉 These tips help, but nothing compares to seeing it live. Watch how I guide Aj Applegate and Sandy Fantasy into this position inside The Alpha Lover—and learn the rhythm that makes her moan. Watch now.
Step-by-Step: Mastering the Butterfly Position
- Set the Scene: Have her lie on her back near the bed’s edge, hips close enough to extend past it.
- Take Your Position: Stand at the side of the bed, standing upright, so you’re beside her hips and ready to lift her lower body, feet shoulder-width apart for perfect balance.
- Slide and Lift: Pull her hips until her butt hangs off the mattress. Grab under her thighs or butt, bend your knees, and lift her lower body to your waist level.
- Lock Her In: Hold her firmly. Let her legs fall open or drape over your arms—either way, she’s yours.
- Enter With Intent: Slide inside her slowly, feeling her wrap around you. Make sure she knows you’re in charge.
- Set Your Pace: Control the tempo. Slow, teasing strokes build tension; hard, deep thrusts release it.
- Own Her: Keep your eyes on her, talk to her, and let her know she belongs to you in this moment. Watch her reactions: Eye contact and reading her moans tell you exactly when to go harder, slower, or deeper.
👉 See the full demonstration—from entry to climax—with explicit details inside The Alpha Lover. Watch it here.
The Final Secret to Make Her Crave You
You were built to lead. And she wants you to lead—in life and in bed. When you master dominant positions like the Butterfly, you don’t just give her pleasure. You earn her trust, her respect, and yes—her love.
So tonight, don’t just have sex. Make her surrender. Show her what it feels like to be taken by a man who knows exactly what he’s doing.
👉 Click here to watch The Alpha Lover with Aj Applegate and Sandy Fantasy—and learn every move to make her yours forever. Watch now.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Author of Naked U
