“If you think sex is a big pain in the ass, try different position.” – Unknown
It’s hard to completely enjoy sex when you can’t stop worrying about how long you will last. This was the problem that a good friend of mine had. He came to me for advice on what to do. He loved sex with his wife, but he couldn’t even enjoy it anymore because he was just worried the whole time about how quickly he might cum. I had to tell him, that is no way to have sex!
Sex needs to be about pleasure, both yours and hers. I understand the concerns about wanting to last long enough for her to be able to get the best experience possible, which is why I am going to share the following 6 sex positions with you that will help you last longer and enjoy sex more fully. A general rule for lasting longer is to avoid positions that involve deep thrusting (like doggy style, for example) and do positions that involve shallow penetration. You also want positions that force you to go slow and steady, instead of hard and fast. Slow and steady wins the race, remember? Here are my favorite fail-safe positions for lasting longer:
1. Spooning – In this position you will both lie down on your sides facing in the same direction. In order to get inside her, have her bend forward at the waist and lift up her top leg. Once you’re in you should snuggle up close to each other and rock and grind back and forth. This position is not only great for lasting longer, but it’s also wonderful for intimacy between you and your partner. You also have access to her whole body from this vantage point, so wrap your arms around her and touch her all over.
2. Side by Side – You’ll both be on your sides again with this position, but this time you will be facing each other. Your pelvis will be slightly lower than hers and she will lift up her top leg and wrap it around your waist. This is a tricky position because if you don’t go slow and steady then you might just fall right out. Your concentration on the position will also help to keep your mind from worrying about finishing too fast. Just rock and flow and enjoy the closeness of this wonderful position!
3. The T Position – In this position you will lie on your side again, but this time she will lie down on her back, perpendicular to you with your crotches lined up. She will drape her legs over your body and open her legs, giving you full access. This position allows for a deeper penetration than the previous two positions, but you will still need to go slowly, which will help to keep you from cumming too quickly. Grab her thighs if you need leverage. This position also gives you perfect access to stimulate her clitoris.
4. Modified Doggy Style – So many men really love doggy style that I just had to include a lasting longer position that is an improved version of this favorite. Instead of being on all fours she will lie face down on the bed and you will enter her from behind, just like in regular doggy style. She will keep her legs out straight and closed and you will place one leg on either side of her body. You can either prop yourself up with your arms or lie down on top of her.
5. Lap Position – Sit in a comfortable Indian style position. She will sit on your lap facing you and wrap her legs around your waist. This position will force you to slow down, but you will get a nice view of her body. She can lean back for deeper penetration or forward to make it more shallow.
6. Chair Doggy Style – Here is another great modification on the doggy style position. You will sit in a chair and she will sit down on your lap facing out. Have her sit upright and slowly and methodically ride you. You will have your hands free to touch her breasts and stimulate her clitoris.
With these sexy six positions you will not only be able to last longer, but you will also be able to fully enjoy sex. Instead of worrying that you will cum too quickly, you will be able to relax and stay in the moment. What could be better?