“Sex resembles nothing so much as organ transplantation.” – Laurence Rickels
I perused some of the leading sex surveys created in the last couple of years to find out what are the new naughty, naughty things more and more people are sampling in the sack. The following five carnal crazes aren’t fads that will phase out faster than jelly bracelets. They are brilliant mattress moves every hot blooded couple must add to their randy lineup.
#1. Do it in double digits
No doubt, you’re intimately acquainted with 69. Now may I introduce you to (drumroll, please)… 77. The name 77 refers to the way you and your partner’s bodies look when they meld together in this side entry position. It’s similar to spooning but with a twist. The unique angling practically guides your missile to her G-spot. To reach numeric Nirvana, have her lie on her side with you behind her so that you’re both facing the same direction. Have her wrap her legs around your top leg and pull you close, pushing her butt toward you as you enter her. Once you’re inside, she should straighten her legs in tandem with yours so they’re tightly sandwiched together, toes pointed. Stay connected as you simultaneously bend at your waists, while extending your legs at a 45-degree angle away from your bodies. Folding over and assuming the 77 in this maneuver changes the angle of penetration, creating a direct penile pathway to the front vaginal wall where her G-spot is located.
#2. Try a top-notch toy
In recent years, sex-toy sites have seen a rapid increase in sales, with women being the majority of their clientele. So is it any wonder that adult toys have gone designer? Style-savvy women aren’t satisfied with the cheap, tastelessly packaged vibrators on the market. As a result, vibrators have undergone an extreme makeover. There has been a growing trend of ‘sexual couture’ – fashionable products meant to be played with and admired. Therefore, treat your partner with a top-of-the-line titillator. An electronic toy produces sensations that you or your partner can’t, which adds new dimensions of pleasure. Plus, these designer toys are less threatening to you because you’ll perceive them as fun accessories rather than penis replacements. Pull out this erotic accoutrement the next time you’re doing it doggie-style. From this rear-entry position, you have more access to her clitoris. While you’re penetrating her from behind, guide the vibrator to her bliss button. Then experiment with various speeds and pressures as you continue to thrust. If direct contact is too intense, play around with spots that provide moderate stimulation. The excitement of trying something new coupled with the pulsation you’ll feel on the base of your penis while you’re inside her will be highly erotic for both of you.
#3. Give her a standing O-vation
Apparently all cunnilingus are not created equal. Women are claiming that the hottest new way to be paid lip service is while standing. More blood rushes to the pelvic region while they’re on their feet, resulting in a much more intense orgasm. Ready to blow your woman’s mind? Have her stand upright with her feet staggered, near a chair, countertop, or door-frame (she may need to grab on for support when her legs start quaking). Kneel in front of her using a pillow as a cushion. Then take her labia into your mouth, alternating between sucking and licking. Once she starts shaking in ecstasy, slide two fingers inside her vagina and start gently sucking on her clitoris. Because she’s standing, the clitoris is more engorged than usual. Applying pressure on it creates a tourniquet-like effect, keeping more blood in her nether areas for a truly explosive orgasm.
#4. Fulfill a phone fantasy
These days everyone and their dog has a cell phone. But how is our main mode of communication impacting our sex lives? Turns out, it’s making couples more courageous. Interacting via technology rather than face-to-face provides an anonymity that often makes it easier for partners to express their desires. More couples seem to be exploring this freedom and sharing fantasies this way. If the thought of partaking in phone play leaves you kind of speechless, this passion plan will loosen you up. First thing in the morning, lock your woman in for the evening with a firm text message. (Cancel your plans. U R mine tonight.) At noon, divulge more of your pleasure plot in a second text (My place. 8. Bring a pair of lace panties and whipped cream).
When she shows up, grab the props, make her comfortable on the sofa, and quickly retreat to another room. Then dial up on her cell from behind closed doors and tell her step by step exactly what you wish you were doing to her. Keep up the delicious banter until she has no choice but to hang up and barge right in.
#5. Work the new lube job
Once you’ve greased your woman up and kneaded her into a frenzy, progressing from caressing to sex has always been a no-no. Traditional massage products contain chemicals that could damage a condom and promote infection. Now, companies are rolling out products that double as massage oils and sexual lubricants. The formulas are odorless, not sticky, and condom compatible, allowing couples to experience fully the pleasure of touch. All you have to do is learn these touch techniques. Undress your partner and have her lie facedown. Straddle her back facing her feet so you can focus all of your energy on her butt and thighs. These muscles are among the largest in the body, yet they’re often overlooked. Plus, they’re packed with nerve endings, so handling them can be highly pleasurable. Work a generous amount of lube into your palms. Make loose fists and rapidly pummel her thighs are tush with the sides of both hands in quick succession to awaken her senses. After a few moan-inducing minutes, change to long, sensual strokes, adding more lube as needed. Intermittently tease her by slip-sliding your hands between her inner thighs, dangerously close to her vagina. When you see she’s really fired up, spank her gently, flip her over and use your already slippery hands to firm your erection and treat her with some fingering before riding her.
Have a crazy hot week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Every time a new sensation is introduced, her body has a ‘Wow! What was that?’ reaction, which forces you to take a climax-delaying pause. So lick, suck, scratch, squeeze, and rub her all over. For more tips and tricks on how to arouse her G-Spot and give her deep vaginal orgasms, check out my program on the subject, G-Spot orgasms made easy.
