Every once in awhile I like to write up a list of some of my all time favorite sex tips, moves and techniques. Sometimes the randoms tips I have don’t fit together in one article, so today I thought, why not make an article of all the hot and sexy things I LOVE to do for my hunky readers?
1. Take a bath together – Steamy, warm, wet, naked… these are some of my favorite things! Prepare a sensual bath for you and your partner. Be sure to set the mood in the bathroom. You can light candles and add essential oils to the water. Try adding a few drops of lavender (it helps you to relax), patchouli and sandalwood (both scents are said to heighten sexual feelings).
2. Public Displays of Affection – A lot of people are turned off by the idea of public displays of affection, but hear me out before you discard this tip. There are a lot of ways to subtly touch and caress your partner in public that will send clear signs to her that you love and want her, but they won’t make other people roll their eyes and judge you. Touch her thigh under the table, place your hand on the small of her back or on her hip when standing next to each other, hold her hand, find ways to casually touch her neck or her hair. Many couples who have been together for a long time rarely touch each other anymore and doing this will spark loving and sexual feelings in your partner.
3. Hotel Role Play – Meet each other for a drink at the restaurant of a nice hotel in town. Dress up a bit and get ready to do a really sexy role playing exercise. You’re going to “pick up” your partner at the hotel bar. When you arrive, don’t go and sit right next to her, but instead have the bartender send her one of her favorite drinks. Once she has accepted, go over and sit down next to her and “introduce yourself.” Feel free to receate yourself (a different name, job, and persona). After flirting shamelessly with each other at the bar, pay the tab and casually find a way to slip her your room key and then go up to the room. Wait for her upstairs and finish the night having crazy “stranger” sex. You can also switch up the roles and have your partner be the one to pick YOU up. Just make sure you let her in on the plan before trying it out.
4. Go Reeeeaallly Slow – We tend to be in a rush when it comes to most things in our lives, and sex is no exception. It’s the end of the day, you’re tired, but you also want to get laid. That’s ok and a quickie is ok ONCE in awhile, but not every day. Next time you’re having sex, instead of rushing through the motions, try slowing things down 3 times slower than you would normally do it. Start from the beginning of foreplay and don’t speed things up during the whole time. This will give both of you a much more powerful orgasm because it will have built up over a longer period of time.
5. Give and receive – I love it when my husband insists on touching me all over, but refuses to let me return the favor. Tell your partner that you’re going to touch and please her, but she is not allowed to touch you in return. If she reaches out to touch you, gently move her hands away and tell her that it’s her turn to receive the pleasure. This is a fun and sexy way to focus all sexual attention on your partner. You get extra bonus points if you don’t let her return the favor that same night. Let her totally relish in her pleasure and if she tries to do the same to you, just tell her, “you can do me tomorrow night, tonight was about you.” It will be a favor she won’t soon forget!
6. Don’t forget to kiss – It seems like a silly, basic thing, but if you’re in a long term relationship, think about the last time you really kissed your partner. What about the time before that? It’s probably been a long time since you have kissed her like you did when you first got together. Now, make a promise that you will kiss her passionately at least once every day. It doesn’t have to lead to anything, but it will bring you closer and I guarantee that with a little time, you will be having more sex because of it!
Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
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