Your Penis Has a Complaint 📢 - And that’s why it’s sabotaging your erections.

Your penis has something to say— And it’s not what you think. He’s tired of performing. Tired of pressure. Tired of being ignored… While you focus only on her pleasure.

There’s a silent killer of erections no one talks about. And it’s not stress, blood flow, or age.

It’s performance.

More precisely: it’s the pressure you put on yourself to perform like a porn star—instead of letting yourself feel like a man.

We often say that erections are a sign of desire. But they’re more than that. Erections are the body’s response to pleasure.

And when you ignore your own pleasure? Your penis does too.

In this article, I’m going to give you a Night Sequence that is all focused on YOUR pleasure, that shows you exactly how to bring that enjoyment back—and how feeling more can help you stay hard longer.

The Hidden Saboteur: Pleasure-Starved Sex

Most men think they’re being generous lovers by focusing entirely on her. And yes, women adore a man who wants to please them.

But here’s what she really wants: A man who’s turned on by her. Who devours her. Who loses himself in the moment.

If you’re focused only on performance, you’re not feeling her—you’re judging yourself. And that judgment triggers anxiety, not arousal.

Let me give you a simple frame:

Think about when you masturbate. You’re alone, relaxed, watching a video or looking at a photo that turns you on. You’re not worrying about technique or timing. You’re immersed in sensation.

That’s how sex should feel. And in just a moment, I’ll give you a sequence that brings that feeling into the bedroom.

👉 Want to see what this looks like? Inside Unbreakable Erections, I show you how to create the mental and physical conditions that keep you hard—with Alexis Monroe and Bailey Rayne.

Your Pleasure-Focused Night: A New Sequence for Your Body

Yes, this is pleasurable for her too. But it’s built around your experience.

It’s a night where you reclaim the rawness, speed, and sensation that you enjoy during solo play—and bring it to partnered sex.

Here’s how to do it:

1. Build the Anticipation

This isn’t about her. It’s about you. Your body. Your arousal. Your pleasure.

And the secret to unlocking stronger, longer-lasting erections? Make your penis wait. And while you do that—make her wait, too.

This step is all about building tension in both your bodies. That tension becomes hunger. That hunger becomes hardness.

Here’s what to do:

Stay clothed. Let her be the one undressed.
Undress her slowly. Slide your hands under her shirt, kiss her neck, gently tease her breasts—over her clothes first.
Breathe deeper. Let your body feel her skin, her scent, her sounds.
Make your penis ache. Don’t even touch it yet.

How long? At least 4 minutes. Don’t rush—even if she starts moaning, even if your pants feel too tight.

What happens next? If done right, your erection will be pressing against your pants, throbbing to be freed. And her panties? Soaked.

2. Wait a Little Longer

Now she’s undressed. Her panties are soaked. And your erection is ready to burst.

But you’re not giving in yet.

Why this matters: This moment trains your mind and body to command your pleasure—not chase it.

Here’s what to do:

Have her unbuckle your pants. Let her see your hard, pulsing erection.
Let her feel the effect she’s had on you—without touching it yet.
Guide her into missionary position. But don’t enter her.

Now tease:

Slap your shaft gently on her thighs.
Rub your tip over her lips, her clit.
Slide it along her entrance—but don’t go inside.

Duration: At least 1 minute. Breathe through the intensity. You’ll feel your body scream to enter her. She’ll squirm and beg.

That’s exactly what you want.

This is where you become the man who owns the moment.

3. Enter Her Halfway

You’ve teased her. You’ve teased yourself. Now it’s time to enter her—but not all the way.

Why this matters: By entering her slowly, partially, you build intensity instead of blowing it all at once. Your body adjusts. Her body opens. And the tension turns into something primal.

Here’s what to do:

Slide into her halfway. No more than 50% of your length.
Thrust shallow, steady, and slow. Let her feel your rhythm—not your urgency.
Watch her face. Listen to her breath. Let your senses drink in the moment.

Then: After 30 seconds, pull out slowly. Pause. Then give her one full, deep thrust.

Outcome: She’ll gasp. Her body will wrap around you. Your erection will throb harder than ever.

This is your moment. Own it.

4. Take Your Pleasure

Now the stage is set. She’s wet. You’re fully hard. It’s time to claim what you’ve both been aching for.

Why this matters: This is about you. Not lasting for her. Not holding back. But diving into your deepest fantasies—with her as your partner in pleasure.

Here’s what to do:

Thrust deep. Thrust hard. Let your hips move with power.
Grab her hips. Pull her into you. Let your dominance take over.
Growl in her ear. Tell her how good she feels. Let your voice feed your arousal.

Need inspiration? This is how you’d move when masturbating to your favorite video—now you’re doing it inside a real, begging woman.

Bonus: 👉 I show you this exact rhythm inside Unbreakable Erections, featuring Alexis as the eager blonde and Bailey as the sweet-but-wild girl-next-door.

Reminder: You’re not performing. You’re feeling. Let that guide you.

5. Extend your Pleasure

You’re in the middle of it. It feels amazing. So why stop now?

Why not stretch out that pleasure, tease your body longer, and enjoy more of what you’re already loving?

Not for her.

But for you.

And here’s a secret: changing positions isn’t just for variety—it’s for more pleasure.

Why enjoy her in just one angle, when you can explore the way her body feels, sounds, and moves from another?

Doggy style lets you go deep—and gives you a front-row view of her curves, her moans, and your own power.

Want to take it a step further? Try my “over the bed’s edge” edge position, a duggy style variation, where her hips hang off the mattress. It’s one of the most arousing ways to take control and reset your body for more.

👉 I teach this advanced position “over the bed’s edge” inside The Alpha Lover with the big butty, AJ Appelgate and the Russian hottie, Sandy.
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Here’s what to do:

When you’re close, pause. Pull out.
Repeat the penis teasing from Step 2: tap her clit, slap your shaft on her inner thighs, rub along her lips without entering. Do this for at least 15 seconds. Let your body throb with anticipation—and hers melt under the tension.
Change positions. Give your body an additional 30 seconds to catch its breath while you shift her from missionary to doggy—or take it a step further and try “Over the Bed,” where her hips hang off the mattress.

Duration: Spend 15–30 seconds out of her, catching your breath, pulsing with hunger. But don’t take too long—if you stay out for more than 1 minute, your erection might start to lose its strength. Keep it stimulated. Re-enter her hard and hungry before the 60-second mark to maintain the intensity.

Then go back in—hard.

👉 Want a visual? I demonstrate this exact pleasure-control technique inside Last Longer Tonight with Maddy and Scarlett.

Result: Each time you re-enter, the pleasure intensifies. You’re not trying to last for her. You’re doing it because it feels incredible for you.

6. Orgasm Without Shame

When it’s finally time—let go.

Why this matters: Too many men tense up during orgasm. They judge it. Mute it. Rush past it.

But when you allow yourself to feel your climax fully, your body releases everything. And she sees the full impact her body had on you.

Here’s what to do:

Don’t apologize for finishing.
Moan. Flex. Let the sounds out.
Look her in the eyes—or bury your head in her neck—and let your body shake.

Remember: Your orgasm is a gift to her. When she sees how much pleasure you took from her body, it makes her feel desired. Powerful. Erotic.

So don’t hold it in. Don’t hide it.

Enjoy it.

7. Bond After the Blast

Your orgasm isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of something deeper.

Why this matters: The minutes right after sex are where memories get locked in. Oxytocin floods your systems. And her body becomes even more open to your presence.

Here’s what to do:

Stay close. Lay beside her. Hold her if she wants it.
Don’t jump up. Don’t check your phone. Just breathe.
Say something soft, low, or teasing—anything that reminds her she’s safe, wanted, and still yours.

Optional: Trace circles on her skin. Kiss her shoulder. Let your bodies recover together.

Result: This post-sex moment is what separates a one-time hookup from unforgettable connection. It anchors the memory. And makes her crave it again.