These questions will reveal the truth: Is she sexually attracted to you… or just tolerating you?
When a woman sees you as an Alpha, her biology reacts. She gets wet. She relaxes. She trusts. Sex flows. Submission becomes natural.
But when she sees you as a Beta? Her body shuts down. Her voice sharpens. She questions you. Challenges you. Resists you. And sex? It dies quietly.
That’s why this test matters.
Because this isn’t her fault—it’s yours. She’s not doing it on purpose—and it’s not something she consciously controls. It’s biological. Instinctual. And you can learn to shift it.
Below are two versions of The Alpha Test:
- One for men in a relationship
- One for men who are dating
How to Score:
- If you answer YES ✅ to 4 or more—she sees you as a Beta.
- If you answer NO ❌ to 4 or more—she sees you as an Alpha.
Let’s begin.
If You’re In a Relationship
Most men don’t realize they’ve stopped being the Alpha—until it’s too late. This is one of the biggest intimacy killers in long-term relationships. The worst part? It’s silent, and it happens gradually.
1. Does she make jokes about you in front of your friends?
This could be a joke about how messy you are, or about your outfit, your hair—anything that makes you the punchline in front of others.
✅ Yes: She doesn’t value how your friends see you. Your status isn’t important to her. ❌ No: She protects your image because she respects you. She understands that status matters.
2. Does she speak to you with a harsh or irritated tone?
This might sound like passive-aggressive remarks, frequent sighs, eye-rolls, or using a sharp tone over small issues.
✅ Yes: Her irritation means she doesn’t see you as the man in charge. She’s trying to take the lead.
❌ No: Her soft, respectful tone means she sees your leadership and relaxes into it.
3. Does she challenge your decisions or ask for proof constantly?
This looks like double-checking everything you say, needing to ‘verify’ your choices, or refusing to let your word be final on any plan.
✅ Yes: She doesn’t trust your judgment or instincts. She wants to control outcomes.
❌ No: She believes in your word and respects your authority as a man.
4. Does she get angry at you for working too much?
This might look like guilt trips when you’re focused on building something meaningful, or making your ambition the problem.
✅ Yes: She resents your purpose and doesn’t see your time as valuable.
❌ No: She supports you, takes care of you, and wants to see you win—because she respects your mission.
5. Does she wear lazy pajamas or unflattering underwear around you?
We’re talking old cotton, saggy waistbands, or cartoon prints that scream, “don’t look at me.”
✅ Yes: She’s no longer trying to arouse you—because she’s stopped seeing you as a sexual man.
❌ No: She still wants to turn you on—because your presence still excites her.
6. Does she tell you she doesn’t need your help with physical tasks?
This might sound like, “I can carry it myself” or “I don’t need help with the tire.”
✅ Yes: She doesn’t see you as physically superior, and thus struggles to respect your masculinity.
❌ No: She recognizes your strength and welcomes your masculine role.
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If You’re Dating—Look for These First-Date Signals
The Alpha test doesn’t wait until you’re in a relationship. She’s scanning you from the first text, the first date, the first move.
Here are 6 common early signs of how she sees you:
1. Does she insist on changing the plan?
This could be her pushing for a different restaurant, changing the time last-minute, or rejecting your original suggestion.
✅ Yes: She doesn’t trust your ability to lead or follow through. She wants control.
❌ No: She’s excited to follow your plan and wants to see where your lead takes her.
2. Does she override your suggestions?
This might be her correcting your order at dinner, questioning your choice in movie, or redirecting every conversation.
✅ Yes: She doesn’t value your judgment. She’s testing to see if you’ll fold.
❌ No: She accepts your lead and wants to be in her feminine energy.
3. Does she take your masculine gestures—like opening the door—for granted?
This includes not acknowledging when you open the door, pull out her chair, or pick up the bill.
✅ Yes: She feels entitled to them and doesn’t see them as special.
❌ No: She’s grateful because she values your role as a man and knows not all men are like you.
4. Does she challenge your lead during the date?
This might look like constant interruptions, suggesting alternative directions when walking, or taking control of the vibe.
✅ Yes: She’s still trying to run the show. You haven’t convinced her to trust you.
❌ No: She’s relaxed, letting you take control.
5. Did she make you wait or show up late without an apology?
This could be that she made you wait over 10 minutes downstairs when you went to pick her up in your car, without acknowledging it.
✅ Yes: She doesn’t respect your time—she doesn’t see your presence as something to value.
❌ No: She honors your time and shows up because she respects your role as a man.
6. Does she confront you or correct you in public?
This could be interrupting you mid-sentence to correct details, calling you out in front of others, or arguing during social moments.
✅ Yes: She doesn’t respect your authority. She undermines you when others are watching.
❌ No: She brings things to you privately, because she respects your leadership.
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Her Behavior Is the Mirror of Your Power
She doesn’t need you to be perfect. She doesn’t even need you to be right all the time.
She needs to feel that you’re solid. Clear. Decisive. Unshakeable.
That’s what gives her permission to surrender— Not just emotionally… but sexually.
Summary
An Alpha: She trusts you to lead. She softens. She submits. She wants to impress you. Craves your attention. Gets wet at your presence.
A Beta: She confronts you. Corrects you. Pulls away from sex. Challenges your decisions. Gets dry. And starts looking elsewhere for masculine energy.
👉 If you want to lead her not just in life—but under the sheets—then this is where you start. Click here to watch The Alpha Lover now.
With certainty,
Gabrielle Moore
Sex Expert & Founder of Naked U
P.S.
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