The missionary position is the old standard when it comes to sex positions. It’s sometimes associated with inexperienced young couples or boring older couples who have sex once a year. But is the missionary position really just a boring, old standard? I say, no way! The missionary position is a great sex position with a lot of possibilities and ways to amp it up. If you’re a fan of this position, or even if you’re not, you need to try these 7 ways to electrify missionary sex.
1. Make it intimate – As you well know, many women like the intimacy that is associated with sex and the closeness you feel with your partner. The missionary position is perfect for tapping into this because you are face to face the whole time and your bodies are intertwined. Use this closeness to stare into each others eyes, kiss her passionately on the mouth and neck, and whisper things into her ear.
2. Have her place her feet flat on the bed – This will lift her pelvis just slightly giving you another angle than the traditional missionary position. She should bend her legs at the knees and then place her feet flat on the bed in a comfortable place. One of the great benefits of the missionary position is that the angle of your bodies allows your public bone to rub into her clitoris when you thrust. This feels amazing for her and will be amplified by this slight modification.
3. Prop it up – Another great way to prop up her pelvis and get that sexy angle is by putting a pillow or two under her lower back/butt. However, in this position she would keep her legs flat on the bed. You’ll notice that she feels tighter when you penetrate her like this.
4. Legs over your shoulders – With this modification your partner will lift her legs and put them over your shoulders. This allows you to go deep, REALLY deep. Be careful and go slow with this one, because you could go so deep that it hurts her.
5. Wrap her legs around you – In this next modification your partner will wrap her legs around your waist, cross her legs at the ankle and hold on tight. This allows for some nice body contact as the woman wraps her legs around you like she doesn’t want to let you go. It allows the woman to have a little more control in a position that tends to be more passive for her. The angle of the position also allows you to go much deeper inside her. The higher she wraps her legs around you, the deeper you will be able to penetrate. Careful with this one, it feels so good that you might find it hard to control your orgasm. You might want to save it for the end of your romp!
6. With her legs closed – So the standard missionary position is the woman lying down on her back with her legs open and the man gets on top and enters. Next time, try this position with her legs closed. A couple great things happen when you do this modification. First, her vagina gets tighter because of how her body is positioned. This feels amazing for you. Second, the angle of how you penetrate her is going to be different and your penis and pelvis will naturally come into contact more with her clitoris. This will feel amazing for her! Don’t try to go to fast with this one because the angle might make it harder for you to stay inside if you’re pounding away. Just find a nice, easy rhythm.
7. Kneeling missionary position – This is an especially fun and sexy modification to try. You should be on your knees sitting back on your ankles/feet. You will pull your partner, who is lying on her back, toward you, lift up her butt and pelvis so that it’s in your lap and enter her from there. Her body will be in a downward angle from her pelvis to her head. Prop a pillow or two under her back to make things more comfortable. She can sling her legs over your shoulders again to get the angle just right. You have a fantastic view of your partner’s body from this position and you can watch as you penetrate her over and over again. You also have full access to stimulate her clit, play with her breasts or touch any other part of her body that strikes your fancy.