Learning how to handle your most treasured appendage will make you a great lover, but earning a PhD in penis study will pay off for your partner’s pleasure as well (if she accepts orgasms as currency, that it). Read on because I’m telling you exactly what you need to know about how to make the most of what genetics gave you and become the alpha lover you crave. I promise it’s not at all hard.
Size up the sexy situation
The good news is that you can experience maximum pleasure regardless of what you’re working with under the belt. Whether you’re giant or below average (or curve dramatically to one side), with my tips and tricks you can definitely find a way to reach unrivalled ecstasy.
You’re too big
It’s true, working with a kielbasa sausage requires some meatpacking adjustments. Spend time on foreplay – increased arousal literally lifts your partner’s cervix higher in her body, making more room for you to maneuver. Go for spooning or lying side by side facing each other. These are less about thrusting and more about the gentle rock. I like to call them the Ed Sheeran of sex positions.
You’re too small
Just because you’re a Shetland pony below the belt doesn’t mean you can’t be a stallion in the sack. In fact, cowgirl will be your new favorite sex position – when your partner jumps in the saddle it means she’ll take all of you. She should try grinding rather than bouncing for optimal clitoris action without losing any of your precious inches. If you’re more of a G-Spot enthusiast, go for doggie-style. This position creates a snug fit, making you feel larger, while also putting pressure on the hard-to-reach pleasure zones behind her vagina. The shoulder holder, the position in which she rests both legs on one of your shoulders, is also amazingly good for you, since it also narrows the vagina and gives you complete control.
You’re average
Most positions are fair game for you, so experiment! And don’t sell yourself short. Most of the men that come to me for counseling and therapy confess that they don’t think their size is anything to write home about, even though they are perfectly well hung in the normal range of carnal dimensions. Make the most of what you have by using powerful, deep thrusts at a slow-to-medium pace. It can be wonderfully intense. Pistonlike porno thrusting feels horrible to most women, leaving them dry, sore and bored. Add side to side movement and up and down pelvic pressure against her clitoris when you are all the way inside, to vary the stimulation.
You’re a bendy boy
Real fireworks display when a guy with a curved member uses doggie style. If your penis is curved upwards, this position allows the curvy part to make full contact with your partner’s G-Spot. Plus, you can maximize the pleasure by adopting a grinding rhythm to your thrusts, thus controlling the pace of the action prior to orgasm. You should also try missionary. It may be boring for the rest of the world, but it does wonder when it comes to a curved penis. Why? Because it allows your partner’s body to naturally adapt to the shape of your penis, thus giving you a full, snug fit. Also, the curvature ensures that every thrust comes with an added treat of the head rubbing the G-Spot and the curve pressing on the posterior walls of her vagina.
Give her the shaft
By using these positions, which please her no matter what size you are packing.
The pickle tickle. She should sit on your thighs with her legs out wide. By sliding her hips back and forth, she is stimulating the sensitive first few inches of her vagina with the head of your penis. This kind of shallow penetration is ideal for everybody, both big and small.
The rocket raiser. For a twist on missionary, have her lie on her back with her legs raised to one side as you enter her. The squeeze and raise of her legs makes her super tight, and the angle of her hips means you will hit spots inside her that rarely get that much love.
The Game Boy-Oh-Boy. While you’re playing Xbox, try a game where you both win. While you’re sitting on the couch or on a chair, she should lower herself down on you, with her back to you, pressing her legs between yours. Holding onto your thighs, she should stick her booty back. You will achieve a really good depth in this angle and since she has full control, you can bet she’ll orgasm without you even lifting a finger.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore