Move over the usual missionary, doggy, and girl-on-top positions and try these much wilder poses for a change in pace.
What’s not to love about sparks flying in the bedroom? However, going with only a few tried and tested positions, sex could get monotonous. If you are looking to spice things up, take cue from these new avatars, which will not only make your romps thrilling, but also make you more adventurous between the sheets.
WHAT: THE VICTORY
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: HIGH
Have your partner lie down on her back, and raise her legs, while you kneel down in front of her. Then, you spread her legs apart in a wide V (hence the name victory), and penetrate while kneeling. This posture is especially great for women, since it stimulates the G-spot and clitoris. Not only will it give you maximum pleasure since the penetration is deeper, it maximizes your partner’s pleasure as well and helps you last longer. For more tips and tricks on prolonging your erection, check out my program on the subject, Lasting Longer Tonight.
WHAT: THE MAGIC MOUNTAIN
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: MODERATE
As the name suggests, this position involves you and your partner sitting facing each other, with legs bent upwards to resemble a mountain. The knees become the peaks. Then, move slowly towards each other until you are able to make contact, and can have sex easily. You may need to place your palms on your sides for better support. Bonus? It gives you equal leverage and control, and you could also observe the act of having sex, which can be a real turn-on.
WHAT: SIDE-BY-SIDE
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: EASY
When you’re lazy or tired, but are still in the mood for sex, the side-by-side position can make things easier. Your partner and you lie on your sides, facing each other, and scuttle close enough to have sex. It’s as easy as that. Since both of you have support beneath, one person isn’t putting in a lot of effort. Also, the change of angle makes for a newer, different sort of penetration for the two parties. If you want to get more adventurous, you can try side-by-side 69 for great oral sex.
WHAT: THE CRAB
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: HIGH
This is an extension of the cowgirl, but with slight variation. Instead of your partner using her knees to support her weight, she should keep her feet flat on either side of you, and then gently lean back, placing her palms on the sides of your legs. She may also rest her palms on your legs, depending upon what gives her a better grip. You bending your knees slightly for better support is a good option too. Then, she should sink on top of you, and start moving rhythmically and gently. This position is great for foreplay and can be rewarding when done correctly. However, if your partner is unable to climax in this position, you could consider starting off with it, and moving to girl-on-top when you are both ready to orgasm.
WHAT: THE TOMINAGI
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: MODERATE
An ideal pick for flexible women, the Tominagi involves your partner lying on her back, with legs bent towards her chest. You kneel in front of her, holding her shins or ankles for support, and then you enter her. You control the level of penetration here, so all she’ll need to do is stay in position and enjoy herself. This is a relaxing position for a woman who doesn’t mind letting her partner take the lead. My partner and I have tried it, with fabulous results, especially since the vagina tends to be tighter in this position, making it more pleasurable for both of us.
WHAT: THE OM
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: EASY
Sit cross-legged on the floor, and your partner should sit on top of you, positioning herself in a manner that you can enter her easily, with her legs wrapped around your back. Gently rock back and forth, and sideways to get your libido going. This may not be a great posture to attain orgasm (unless you keep at it for a very long time), but it is a great precursor to sex that is more aggressive. It brings partners together, and helps them connect, while feeling good at the same time.
WHAT: CROUCHING TIGER
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: HIGH
To achieve this position, you lie on the bed with your legs hanging off the edge from the knees. Facing away, your partner should gently lower herself onto you while squatting. While maneuvering herself into this position may not be very tricky, to sustain having sex for long might be difficult unless your partner has fabulous thigh muscles, or the two of you orgasm soon.
WHAT: MISSIONARY WITH A TWIST
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: EASY
Your partner should lie down flat on her back with three or four pillows under her butt so her pelvis is raised. She should bend her legs at her knees, spread them, and plant her feet on the floor to ensure support. You need to kneel down in front of her between her legs, and bend, entering her simultaneously. This offers the benefits of the missionary, and is great for the woman as the raised pelvis allows for deeper penetration. My boyfriend and I try it whenever we want to spice up missionary, but don’t have the patience to try out something completely new.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Sex is anything but boring, but you have to know what you’re doing and be sure to last long enough to sample all these saucy poses. If you want to learn more about maintaining your hardness for longer stretches of time, check out my program – Lasting Longer Tonight!
