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Could a Sex Toy Replace You in the Bedroom?

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Could a Sex Toy Replace You in the Bedroom?

A lot of men out there (especially my dear readers) are dying to please their women in new and better ways, but for some of you the idea of introducing sex toys into the equation is intimidating, to say the very least. Men worry that a sex toy will do their job for them, and do it way better, to the point where maybe their partner will just decide to stick with the toy that doesn’t expect you to reciprocate once she’s climaxed. I understand, guys, I really do, but instead of fearing the sex toy, it’s time you embraced it in the bedroom and started taking advantage of all that it can add to your relationship.

The Stats

  • Although many might not want to admit it, a lot of people are out there buying sex toys. Research from 2011 showed that over one billion dollars was spent on vibrators in the United States alone!
  • In a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2009, 52.5% of the female participants reported using a sex toy either alone or during intercourse or foreplay with a partner.
  • Vibrators are more often used for clitoral stimulation than for insertion.
  • A study done by Trojan Condoms found that 44% of men have incorporated sex toys into their sexual relationships. Those that did use sex toys reported amazing results in their relationships including increased sexual desire in their partner, better orgasms, and higher partner satisfaction.

How to Do It

Get your partner in on the fun. Tell her that you have been thinking about how you could improve her experience in the bedroom and you thought it might be fun to try out a few sex toys. The great things about sex toy shopping these days is that you and your partner can comfortably browse sex toys without any embarrassment on the Internet. Then you can buy whatever you want and it shows up on your doorstep days later without ever having to have an awkward experience at a sex shop.

Do some research and get input from your partner. She might have experience with sex toys that you don’t know about and may be able to direct you in what she likes and doesn’t like. If she doesn’t there is plenty of information available on the Internet, including reviews of all different kinds of toys. Here are a few that I like to recommend:

  • Hello Touch – This is an amazing little toy that is best used with a partner. It’s a fingertip vibrator that is optimized for both clitoral stimulation and internal stimulation. This means that you can use it for an external clitoral orgasm AND to explore the world of G spot orgasms. Because the vibrating pads fit right onto your finger you will likely feel like you’re more a part of the experience. It can even be easily used during intercourse as well as foreplay.
  • A vibrator with a penis-like shaft – Some women will use a vibrator just for clitoral stimulation, but others enjoy inserting it inside them too. In order to really discover what she loves, you should try a vibrator that you can insert.  
  • Form 2 vibrator – This little vibrator looks like a little bunny rabbit head. It’s not very intimidating to look at, which might make it more attractive to your partner, but it’s an award winning vibrator that packs a punch! It has four different vibration modes and five different intensity levels. The best part? It’s waterproof! That means you can have some fun shower time (or maybe even pool or jacuzzi time?) with your new friend.

These are just a few suggestions to get you started, but as I said, include your partner and do your research about the best toys out there. Good for you for being man enough to improve your sex life with sex toys. You’ll see the results and be happy for it!

Have a blast!
Gabrielle Moore

PS: Don’t forget to let me know how it went in the comments section. You can even share your favorite toy with the community!

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  1. kakyuu

    September 30, 2014 at 8:31 pm

    i have tried for ten years to figure how to get off just using my hands and it just doesn’t seem to work for me – if i don’t use a vibe i don’t get off. thankfully my husband is not intimidated and in fact encourages me to use the vibe during sex!

  2. Stuart

    September 30, 2014 at 11:00 pm

    Nothing could ever replace a real skin to skin penis. A penis is alive and warm and throbbing…especially at the point of ejaculation …..a toy can’t do that, no matter how well they are made.

  3. John

    October 1, 2014 at 9:24 am

    I think women might need to start worrying about the new sex toys aimed at men, like the flesh light, and who knows in the future life like sex robots!

  4. Auxtin

    October 3, 2014 at 6:24 am

    Thanks Gabriella…..nice one & a good remainder

  5. Peter

    October 3, 2014 at 8:37 am

    I think the use of toys is a must for a couples, they simply make sex that much more naughty. Not only that, but they make the experience as a whole last much longer for both the guy and the girl 🙂

  6. MikeH

    October 28, 2015 at 5:36 pm

    Fellas… if your penis skin is dry and rough.. you will certainly be replaced. So make sure you are using a penis health creme every day. This creme will ensure that your skin stays smooth, soft, moisturized and odor-free. There is no other product quite like it. Use one and your partner(s) will be impressed for sure.

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