With these fail-proof rules, we have you covered on all fronts… time to flirt like a boss, gentlemen.
The word flirting can sound quaint to the point of being lamely outdated. But the ability to banter playfully with someone you’re into is a time-honored and valuable dating skill. It heightens sexual tension and distinguishes your dynamic from a ‘just friends’ situation. It also helps you gauge compatibility and chemistry on so many levels. The only problem? In the era of digital dating, you may never have learned this analogue skill…or you’ve let it expire. Here’s how to signal you’re down to get much closer.
And if you want to learn more about how to get out of that pestering and annoying friend zone, check out this program called Passion & Attraction by my friend Alex Allman. If you’re single and trying to learn how to get taken seriously as a sexual partner from the very first time you meet an attractive woman, you can find the method laid out here. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.
Lock eyes in a non-creepy way
Some old-school methods are irreplaceable. There’s nothing sexier than two confident people making eye contact from across the room. A glance or two in which you make eye contact (for three seconds, max!) paired with a subtle smile sends a clear message: ‘I’m interested’.
Say something nice
So this hottie picked up what you’re putting down and is approaching. Now what? You can’t go wrong with giving an earnest compliment. Look for something you find flattering about her (her outfit, her choice of drink), or mention something sweet she did, like giving her seat to another person or helping to get the bartender’s attention so someone could order a drink.
Recognize her efforts
If a woman tosses out a line like, ‘You have beautiful eyes’, and your response is, ‘I bet you say that to everybody’, you come off as skeptical (even if it was a total line). If you’re interested in getting to know this woman, instead of deflecting or downplaying her comment (c’mon, she’s trying here!), simply respond with ‘Thank you’, then move the conversation along. If that feels too abrupt, throw some honest praise right back.
Send signals with body language
Consider all the nonverbal hints you give when you’re not interested in someone. You fold your arms, avoid eye contact, and lean back. When you want to show that you’re listening, engaged and intrigued, make sure to uncross your arms, look her in the eyes and casually touch her hand or tuck her hair behind her ear.
Don’t stop once you’re in a relationship
Although there are other motivations (like sex), most happy couples who are long-hauling it keep flirting because it’s fun. As a relationship develops, flirting may not seem as important, but it can show your partner that you’re still attracted to them.
Digital flirting
Use enticing words
Men who write mmm, gorgeous, handsome, cute, or aww, in their messages are six times more likely to swap numbers with a match than their less flirty counterparts. Try a line like, “A gorgeous gal who also likes ice cream? Mmm…”.
Pepper in an emoji
Toss in a wink, a smiley face, or a kiss—the top emojis used by both sexes when flirting on their phones. But do so sparingly—not in lieu of a complete sentence when one is called for.
Shoot over a GIF
When texting, it can be difficult to express yourself, and even more difficult to show emotion, but GIFs take off some of the pressure. You can send a flirty GIF, such as licking your lips, that conveys interest without having to be too forward. It shows your comical side too.
Get a little fresh
When flirting with your thumbs, banter is the only thing you have to go on. It has to create enough rapport that you want to meet up. While chatting, look for moments where you can tease her, or be naughty with an intriguing challenge like, ‘I’ll tell you when I see you’ or ‘Wonder if you’re this charming IRL…’ She’ll bite.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Flirting and getting noticed is all the more difficult in this day and age, but definitely not impossible. If you’re having trouble breaking out of the mischievous pattern that always drags you down in the friend zone, check out this program called Passion & Attraction by my friend Alex Allman. It contains the step-by-step blueprint for becoming the man that women want and desire sexually. NOTE: This program was NOT created by me.
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