Men always ask me what is the secret to female orgasm and I always answer: the clitoris. Whether you stimulate it using your tongue, your lips, your hand or even a vibrator, this hot spot will send your lover into an orgasmic mood almost instantly.
But its sensitivity is what also makes it tricky to work with: too much rubbing will turn her off completely. Using your tongue like a pointy knife will have the same effect, even though you’re convinced that this is your best oral trick ever.
When I created my Oral Rapture program, I made sure to uncover the real winning moves when it comes to oral stimulation, so that your lover’s clitoris receives the best of the best.
I’m actually really passionate about oral sex and clitoral stimulation in general because my husband used to be very bad at it. So I had to become better and better at finding out what moves I really like and also at expressing what I want. Because I know women have such a hard time asking for what they really want…
Of course, I fantasized about my husband reading my mind and getting me aroused without any guidance at all, but I slowly began to realize that this wasn’t realistic at all. It was just something that was going to keep us from evolving as a couple.
So after I became an expert in everything related to female orgasm, I shared my knowledge with my husband and now we’re always on the same page.
But not all women share this same story – in fact, most women are still waiting for their partner to read their minds, which means they have little to no chance to receive the right kind of stimulation.
Luckily, I am here to share some universally orgasmic techniques – so read on to find out how to treat her clitoris!
Keep your tongue flat and apply medium pressure on her clitoris while slightly moving the tongue up and down. This will mimic the move she makes with her hand when she masturbates – it’s what allows her to reach orgasm in less than 2 minutes.
Apply pressure around her clitoris, not directly on it. This spot is so sensitive that sometimes direct stimulation actually prevents her from reaching orgasm. Try stimulating the skin around the clitoris, which is packed with millions of nerve endings, and see if she likes it more that way.
Massage it with your erect penis. It’s not only a very erotic view, but it also feels amazing, mostly because of the warmth of your penis. The skin-on-skin contact will feel so good that she will implore you to penetrate her. So tease her as much as you can.
Use some coconut oil. Every move you make down there will feel better if she’s slippery, especially since the clitoris is so sensitive. So apply a small amount of coconut oil on your palm and start massaging her whole intimate area – not just her clitoris. Do it slowly and even insert one or two fingers into her vagina.
Suck on her labia and clitoris while fingering her. This combination will take her by surprise which will amplify every sensation.
Draw circles around and on the clitoris. Studies have shown that ladies adore this type of movement, so do it for about 15 seconds while fingering her. If she starts moaning harder, apply even more pressure with your tongue – especially around her clitoris, not directly on it. Try not to keep your tongue too pointy.
Caress her clit with feather-like touches. Use your fingers to barely touch the area, going up to her belly button. You will awaken her whole body!
Change the angle of approach by kneeling in front of her while she sits on a table. You’ll have more access to the key areas and you’ll be able to create different sensations. This position is also one of the sexiest you can try because it brings a little spark of domination – she’ll feel hot and powerful and this will work in your advantage.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S.: I can promise you this: your lady craves clit action! If you want to blow her mind with oral techniques she’s never experienced before, check out my program on the matter: Oral Rapture.
