“Beyond the beauty, the sex, the titillation, the surface, there is a human being. And that has to emerge.” – Jeanne Moreau
Get into the good boyfriend habit of telling your woman how kick-ass she is – she’ll adore you for it. Admit it: you have probably bitched at your partner (maybe multiple times) for not complimenting you enough. Meanwhile, she might think to herself, Hey, what about me? See, just like you, women occasionally need a good ego stroking – and the more specific you can get, the better. But, of course, it’s not like they’re gonna tell you that. So follow these guidelines for crafting compliments your partner will secretly eat up.
Praise her girlfriend behavior
Women really want to be the best damn partners they can be, so your beauty will appreciate if you acknowledge some of her sweet gestures. A lot of women feel like no matter how hard they try, it never seems to be good enough for their partners. That’s why it’s important for her to hear that she’s doing right by you. Plus, it will encourage her to do even more considerate things in the future. Try out these encouraging lines: Í love that you always know just how to make me feel better’ or ‘My friends will be so jealous when they hear what you did for me.’
Pump up her womanhood
These days, your partner is struggling with her whole female identity. So you should let her know just how much you love and appreciate her sweet, feminine side. Most women like to feel beautiful, so comment on her fine features, how proud you feel with her by your side, or how she doesn’t even need to put an effort to look stunning every day, qualities that are an essential part of being a woman that feels good and proud of the way she presents herself to the world.
Rave about her sack skills
Sure, the sex was great, and during the act, hopefully, she made plenty of noise to prove it. But she’ll actually like you to take the lead and ‘endorse’ her for once. Take this a step further by using words (well, intelligible ones at least) to convey how amazing you thought she was. Immediately after your sexcapade, or at another intimate moment, let her know exactly how skilled she is at satisfying you. Get specific, pointing out the particular moves that you love and thanking her for always being able to bring you pleasure. To make her feel like more of a rock star, you can even allude to her being the best bedmate that you’ve ever had.
Acknowledge her hard work
When your partner puts her mind to something – like getting a raise or getting in shape at the gym – she wants to know that you’ve noticed. Women are very result oriented, but along the way, she needs encouragement from you to know that you believe in her. So tell her something like ‘Wow, I’m so impressed with how focused you’ve been on that work project’ or ‘You know, your abs are definitely getting hotter by the day’. Your supportive words will reinforce that all of her efforts have been well worth it.
Have a sweet week,
P.S. Pop up a compliment when she least expects it, for example while you’re eating dinner and sharing how your day unfolded.