“Boys and girls in America have such a sad time together; sophistication demands that they submit to sex immediately without proper preliminary talk. Not courting talk – real straight talk about souls, for life is holy and every moment is precious.” – Jack Kerouac
Experts say that creating a specific kind of mood during booty almost guarantees your orgasms. All you have to do is laugh your pants off. Yes, I am being serious, this is no laughing matter.
A new study from Penn State University found that playfulness is one of the top personality traits couple look for in one another. No shock there – why would anyone want to date a serious sourpuss? But there’s some info that is actually surprising. According to experts, that fun, jokey vibe is even more important in bed. Playing around and laughing releases tons of chemicals into your system that bring you more pleasure and even makes it easier to orgasm. Let me explain…
Laugh your way to orgasm
Having a giggle attack midsession may not seem romantic, but hear me out. When you laugh, your body releases endorphins, so you feel more euphoric, which increases your pleasure overall. Plus, it instantly lowers the release of the stress hormone cortisol. As a result, you are not tense and are less likely to have performance anxiety while doing it. This allows you to focus more on enjoying the moment, which makes it easier for both your minds and bodies to let go and climax.
Finally, there’s the novelty factor. Chances are, you have more sensual and passionate sex than you do the goof-off kind. So when you start cracking up, it makes the whole thing feel fresh. Doing something new or different releases dopamine into your system, which makes you feel pleasure more easily and intensely.
Get the giggles going
Of course, it would be weird to suddenly burst into laughter while she’s fondling the boys – your partner may even worry that you’re laughing at one of her moves. So you’ll need to find natural ways to lighten the mood. Try initiating a tickle fight as things are heating up. No matter how old you are, it’s almost impossible not to laugh when someone tickles you.
Or switch up your location to make things feel more lively and fun. Pretend you’re horny high schoolers, and get it on outside (for example, in the privacy of your backyard) to “hide from your parents”. It will create a mischievous atmosphere that is sure to keep you smiling through all the oohs and aahs.
Build your funny gear
- Start off the night with some social games, but twist them so that they ring sex with every move. For example, try some scrabble with one rule: the words should be pornographic!
- If you’re on a lazy weekend at home, pass the afternoon by watching reruns of The Nanny. It’s almost impossible not to laugh your asses off while Fran Drescher is making those cute and funny noises or while Niles the butler looks oh-so-unimpressed all the time.
- If you’re wondering what to do on a boring work night, go out and have fun at a stand-up comedy session. When you come home, you’ll still have your body worked up from all the laughing and sex will suddenly be perfect way to end up a perfectly spend evening.
- Always have a joke up your sleeve. Not sleazy ones, mind you, women don’t really dig that kind of humor, unless your partner has an even dirties set of jokes. Start it off as a way of lighting up the mood and end it off with the biggest orgasm you both have experienced.
Have a sexy week,
P.S. If you’re in the mood for something more creative, play the dress-up and guess-up game. Take turns in dressing up and miming your favorite actors and your good time will be there.