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The sex moves that bring you closer

“It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover.” – Marge Piercy

Any trick that makes sex hotter for both of you will make you feel more connected – in and out of bed. Here I reveal the most game-changing moves you can try in bed. Start tonight!

The lift

Every woman gets jealous when she hears about how another woman’s guy is insanely good at giving oral. If you want to be the one that your partner brags about, do this: Right when she is about to come, lift her butt a few inches off the mattress (she’ll feel the need to clench her butt muscles to support herself) for a couple of seconds. The tension will make her orgasm stronger than ever.

The kneel

My partner and I made up a move, and every time we use it, it feels extra close, since it’s our thing. I lie down on my left side and pull my top leg as close to my chest as I can. Then he kneels behind me and goes in, so our bodies are perpendicular. He strokes my boobs and hips and hits my clitoris perfectly.

The surrender

If you have always been curious about S&M, but your partner thinks it might be a tad too kinky for her, try this instead: hold her hands over her head and don’t let go. She’ll love it. It feels like being taken, but it’s comfortable since she’s not tied up.

The closer

When you’re on the verge of coming, pause and get into doggie style. Touch her down there for the final moments as you’re thrusting, and it’s nearly guaranteed that you’ll come at the same time. When you do, it will make you feel more bonded.

The tropical trick

Spread coconut oil around your partner’s vagina, then go down on her (it’s safe!). Knowing she tastes good will relax her so she will enjoy the moment more.

The tease

The friction your partner’s underwear creates against her clitoris is amazing, so bring this detail into your sexual routine. How do you do that? Stay clothed for a bit longer, and when you do finally strip, the sex will be extra intense because of the feeling of urgency.

The dig

If you are timid in bed, try this move, it will definitely bring you out of your shell. Dig your nails into your partner’s buttocks when you are doing it in the missionary position and pull her up, closer to you. It’s an easy way to show you’re into it without having to say a word.

The eye lock

Whenever you’re hooking up, pull her into a sitting position while you’re on top, look into her eyes, and thrust back and forth. Since the eye contact makes it romantic by default, it’s a great way to have connected sex with your partner.

The squeeze

In my opinion, the whole point of a woman being on top is to feel like she’s dominating. Teach your partner this trick: when she’s sliding up and down your penis, she should squeeze her PC muscles on her way down. The pressure her clenching creates will make her feel in control. And judging from your sighs, you’ll most definitely dig it.

The preview

One night, when you are with your partner out at a bar, pull her into a coed bathroom and pin her against the wall and start making out. How to make it even sexier? Keep her clothes on – just reach inside her panties to touch her a few hot seconds, then say, ‘More later’. Try to give your partner some sort of preview (even just a thigh touch or an ear whisper) as often as possible. It makes you really anticipate what’s going to happen later on. By the time you get to bed, you’ll be practically bursting.

The pillow thing

To make doggie style more amazing, put two pillows under her stomach when she’s lying face-down. It creates this arch, so it’s easier for you to hit just the right spot on her clitoris.

The little friend

If your partner is having trouble orgasming, try a vibrator during doggie style and it will do the trick for her. After this, just knowing that she can climax from that helps her enjoy other positions because she doesn’t see them as a means to an end.

Have a sensual week,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. Try one of these each night and your sex life will shine again, even brighter than a crazy diamond.

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  1. Wycliffe

    March 15, 2013 at 5:03 am

    Pictures would be good.

  2. Patrick

    March 15, 2013 at 7:23 pm

    You are absolutely amazing. I have tried a few of the positions and techniques you mentioned above and it worked like a clock. Got her ticking. The only problem I have is that had, is, not being able to give her a squirting orgasm, after trying everything you have mentioned.
    Can you explain why is it so.

  3. Basant

    April 5, 2013 at 1:50 am

    thanks for your tips

  4. 1953 classic

    May 30, 2013 at 9:10 pm

    can we get tips on how to make sex more exciting for our man

  5. Bill

    September 22, 2013 at 4:04 pm

    I LOVE it when you have these tip’s! I am SO much looking forward to working these into our love making!
    Thank YOU Gabrielle!

  6. The Swede

    November 15, 2013 at 8:59 pm

    Gabrielle, I owe you SO much!

    For many months I´ve followed your newsletters as a preparing virgin, and 2 weeks ago today I “got lucky” for the very first time. It´s been amazing ever since and I´ve gotten her to orgasm with my left hand, right hand, penis and mouth through cunnilingus, penetration, clitoral stimulation, licking her breasts, licking her throat and licking the earlobes. Just our last session I gave her 18(!) orgasms, including her first squirt, and ended on an orgasm only through a hug.

    This may all seem like an over exaggerated story from the pub, it sure does to me. It is, however, 100% true, and I owe much of it to your amazing newsletters.
    Again, thank you so much Gabrielle!

    //23yo Ex-Virgin.

  7. Derek

    July 9, 2014 at 3:19 pm

    In the “pillow thing” you said to make doggie style more amazing put two pillows under her stomach, if she is in doggie style isn’t she on all fours? I just didn’t understand.

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