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Nine Sex Mistakes to Avoid Like the Plague


Nine Sex Mistakes to Avoid Like the Plague

Many men write in to ask me about how to get their partners to have sex with them more. It can be hard to know exactly why your partner might be less interested in sex than she once was. Sometimes these things just happen in relationships and over time the heat begins to fizzle out.

However, there are some things that you might be doing that are flat out turning her off from sex. In the beginning she may have overlooked these things, but now they just get under her skin and make her want to avoid the bedroom.

How do you know if you’re committing one of these fatal mistakes? Consult my list to see if you might be guilty of one or two… then change your game quickly!

  1. You’re giving only to receive – The sign of a truly good lover is one that gives to his partner because he truly enjoys getting her off, not because he’s waiting for his own payoff. He probably even gets off just on giving her pleasure.
  2. You’re receiving and forgetting to give back – If you’re lucky enough to have a partner who gives without expecting anything in return, make sure you always give back anyway. It’s great to be able to pamper one another and put all the attention on one of you once in a while, but unless she specifically tells you, “no, tonight is just about pleasing you,” you should plan to reciprocate.
  3. You stick with the tried and true – You’re so worried about doing something she won’t like that you stick with the same boring, old routine every time. I hate to break it to you, but the routine can be just as disappointing as trying something new that doesn’t go off well. Give something new a try and then check with her afterward to see if she was into it. She will at least be please with the effort.
  4. Any bit of affection is a precursor for sex – Your partner knows when you kiss her passionately, flirt with her, cuddle with her, give her a massage, or whatever else, you’re only after one thing: SEX. You’ve reduced the intimacy in the relationship down to pre-sex activity instead of just being intimate and affectionate for the sake of being close to one another. This can create distance in a relationship and you definitely don’t want that. Be affectionate without hoping for anything more and let her know you’re not always after sex.
  5. You roll over and go to sleep right after sex – You may have been together for a long, long time, but that doesn’t mean that you should just roll over and fall asleep the minute sex is over. Give her some cuddle time, rub her back, or at the very least fall asleep with her in your arms.
  6. You’ve never asked her what she likes – I know talking about sex can be hard for many people. It means putting yourself in a vulnerable position, and most people aren’t comfortable doing that. However, if you don’t ask her what she likes and doesn’t you’re giving up the chance to become the best lover she’s ever had. If it’s really difficult for you, try asking her in the heat of the moment, “tell me what you like,” “do you like it like that?” or “show me.” Sometimes it’s easier to open the lines of communication through a little bit of naughty talk.
  7. You never give her oral sex – Many women don’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone, so if you’re giving her a peck and calling it a night after sex, you might want to rethink your game. Start the evening by going down on her for a change.
  8. You skip or skimp on the foreplay – I have gone over and over this, so instead of beating a dead horse I’ll just say, don’t skip the foreplay and don’t kiss her for 2 minutes and then think that’s enough. Enjoy yourself!
  9. You always have sex in your favorite position – Does she enjoy your favorite position as much as you do or are you just assuming that it’s as good for her as it is for you? Let her take the lead next time.

Righting these mistakes will make you a better, more sensitive lover and definitely improve her experience in the bedroom.

Big kiss,
Gabrielle Moore

PS. Doubting one of your trademark moves after reading this list? Tell me about in the comment section below.

If you want to know how to give her deep pleasure, no matter what size you are, check out my program “Bigger and Deeper“. In this program, you’ll learn special tricks and positions to make your penis feel twice as large inside her.

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  1. JT

    July 12, 2015 at 6:28 pm

    Hi Babe, thank u for all your help and info.

    Have a great week!



  2. michael

    July 18, 2015 at 6:59 pm

    Hey there SEXY lady thank so much for all the great insight!! Us men are very basic we always need help when it comes to pleasing you women,that’s why we’re always in trouble. Its easier to learn and her it from a goddess like you. Thank you LUV.

  3. Master c**k

    July 20, 2015 at 7:07 pm

    Am glad….. Hoping it will work

  4. Eternal Love

    August 4, 2015 at 3:53 am

    Your words of encouragement actually do help a lot of men. Maybe you could go public one day and show is (men) how to actually get things done in the bedroom. Listening to women like you made my love life even better than before.

  5. Roy Knight

    September 4, 2015 at 1:17 am

    You know your studies
    I look at the tips and he we have grown, I had to laugh on falling asleep Because we stay up all night,like a kid in a candy store. She said I got get up in the morning, I would say like a baby just one piece of candy. Guess what, candy time.

  6. Faisal

    November 8, 2015 at 6:35 am

    I like what you are doing

  7. Darlingtone Morgan

    November 25, 2015 at 3:45 am

    wow!!so helpful

  8. Steve

    February 8, 2016 at 3:16 pm

    All good tips, like everything else you shown so far.

    And if ya’ll haven’t yet given your lady a G-spot orgasm, you have no idea what you’re missing. I had already been fortunate enough to have done that before, but this hot lady has shown me how to do it whenever I want. And she wants. And she does.


    February 23, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    What you are advicing us with is more valuable than any other guidance I’ve ever had.I need “more doses” for every night !

  10. Jeff

    April 9, 2016 at 1:16 am

    I love your show! Girl! Wonderful information, Great job .thanks so much

  11. Booya

    April 9, 2016 at 3:57 am

    I have learned a lot from all your tips the mistakes I have made in past relationships the only thing now I’m single and really haven’t found the right one to unleash the knowledge accumulated and OMG when I do ohhhhhh myyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!

  12. Jay Pangilinan

    April 9, 2016 at 8:38 am

    Hi Gab great teaching i love the tips and everything you say is really true coz i made at least 5-6 of these mistakes.thank you for reminding us men.More brilliant ideas !love û

  13. Sushil

    April 9, 2016 at 10:56 am

    Gabi, like all points you raised, following your advises,you are so sweat darling, you are always keeping us men update on what you ladies desire in bed from us,
    Thanks a lot Darling

  14. Ngosha

    April 10, 2016 at 9:50 am

    What’s it with the tongue that the finger won’t give them

  15. Joe

    June 5, 2016 at 5:32 pm

    Thats great. I like this

  16. samuel

    June 27, 2016 at 11:26 pm

    this is wonderful thanks very much an eye open

  17. Edward Higbee

    October 17, 2016 at 10:04 am

    Hi Gabrielle, I’m 61 years old and have made several of these mistakes without realizing it until now. Thanks you the insight, you’ve been a big help to my sexual issues. Ed

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