Having a new year of sexy naughtiness ahead of us feels really exciting! I’m so proud of all the things we’ve learned together in 2018 and I’m looking forward to many more sexual adventures and discoveries in 2019.
Sure, it’s a time when people discuss a lot their resolutions for the New Year, focusing on their diet, exercising more, on changing their jobs and so on. But almost no one talks about sex goals, which to me is a very important conversation. We think sex is something that just happens… but this is the number 1 mistake that leads to boredom and lack of intimate connection.
You might be totally surprised by this, but I can tell you with certainty that there are A LOT of things your woman would like to change about your sex life. There’s always room for improvement and I admire men who are willing to learn new sexy skills and make their hot sessions even hotter.
Read on to discover the sexiest resolutions she has in mind for this year…
1. More sensual kissing
Listen, when they get hot and bothered, women like to kiss. A lot. You might be in a rush to take her clothes off or to reach her intimate area, but what she really wants you to do is focusing more on the kissing.
And I promise you will like it too. Kissing not only makes you hornier, but it also intensifies the intimate connection between you too, making sex more pleasant… and more interesting. Because a happy woman who feels loved and understood is more willing to try new stuff.
So start your hot session with kissing – but not on the lips. Or at least not yet. Make her crave that passionate kiss by pressing your lips against her skin – on her chin, on her neck and shoulders. When her breathing becomes heavy, kiss her lips like you mean it.
2. Never let her clitoris out of the play
When they masturbate, women have an orgasm every single time and without much effort. You know why? Because they focus mostly on the clitoris, the most sensitive spot in her intimate area. Clitoris should be your best ally in giving her the most body shaking orgasms she’s ever had, so never let it out of your hot play. If you’re creative, you will find a way to stimulate it from every position.
And don’t forget to be gentle – most men rub it too hard, causing pain instead of pleasure. Apply medium pressure and move your hand in circular motion.
3. More oral action
Did you know that most women who satisfy their partners orally don’t receive the same treatment back? Most men avoid oral action because they’re unsure of their skills or because they think their woman doesn’t crave it since she never asks for it. But guess what – she does crave it!
A woman gets huge amounts of pleasure from oral sex, especially since her clitoris is the main character here. Try to focus less on fingering and more on stimulating her clit with both your tongue and your lips, experimenting with the amount of pressure she needs to reach maximum pleasure.
4. Change up your routine
If you always have sex in the bedroom, you’re more likely to get bored with your routine… and with each other. A subtle change, like doing it on the balcony or on the kitchen floor might have a great impact on your erotic encounters!
5. Introduce new moves
Even if she seems somewhat hesitant, your woman secretly dreams of trying new things between the sheets. And it’s even more exciting when her man takes control in a subtle way, surprising her senses from a new angle. Don’t be afraid to be a little more dominant and express your desires because novelty is what keeps the erotic sparkle alive!
Blindfold her, keep her hand above her head while you penetrate her deeply or try a from-behind position while slightly pulling her hair. If she becomes wetter, you’re on the right track!
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S.: I know your woman will be absolutely pleased by these small but powerful changes. By the way, if you want to up your cunnilingus game and become the expert she dreams of, don’t forget to check out my sexy program called Oral Rapture.
For more information about the female orgasm, check out my program Her Secret Hot Spots.
