“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” – Carl W. Buechner
The shower is an erotic haven, with warm water, slippery suds and all that steamy heat. It’s like an instant set-up for great sex. The right position might be a tad tricky to master at first (I’ve got lots of tips for you below), but once you’ve got the logistics figured out, her groans and screams will be echoing off the tiled walls.
There are a bevy of stimulating sensations in the shower, which will cut your work in half. So get that water running, get your clothes off, and submerge yourself in the pure enjoyment of steamy shower sex.
Something to lean on
A lot of today’s homes are built with stand-up showers, meaning no bathtub ledge to prop yourself up on. If your partner isn’t flexible enough to rest a leg on your shoulder or have you hold it, then bend her over. If you’re still crammed for space, there are a wide range of shower benches that are sold at most hardware stores (and she’ll love it because it will give her somewhere to sit when she shaves her legs- an added plus!)
Work with the water
Water is not a long-lasting lubricant, but it does allow for easier, smoother caressing, stroking, and movement in general. Let your hands slide up and down her body. Lap the water off her neck and shoulders. Let your tongue suck the water off her breasts.
Also, if you’ve ever been hesitant about giving her oral sex (or she’s had apprehensions about going down on you), or if you’ve been looking for a “safer” venue to experiment with anal stimulation, the flowing, warm water presents a unique opportunity to work with a clean area as well as have the water dilute any natural secretions.
Soap is fun for all sorts of reasons – it gives you a great excuse to lather her up and let your hands glide over every square inch of her body, it’s slippery and stimulating, and believe it or not, all those yummy scents that body washes come in can add to the overall steamy shower sex experience.
Give her a good rub down. Wash her hair. Hell, even break out one of those poofy sponges. Don’t leave one inch of her unexplored.
A quick word of warning: Soap should never (ever) go inside of her. When you’re using soap down there, proceed with caution. And for God’s sake, soap is not a lube.
Use the shower head to your advantage
That’s right – a removable shower head is a girl’s best friend. We don’t take long showers because we’re doing facials and exfoliating (although that’s what we tell you) – a removable shower head, especially the ones with multiple settings, are a treat all their own.
So why not take advantage of this bathroom-fixture-slash-sex-toy? First use it to massage her scalp, then slowly move it down her neck, across her shoulders and down the length of her spine. Then ever so gently bring it up between her legs while kissing her. Use it in a back-and-forth or circular motion. Change the settings on the showerhead to create different pulsations. She’ll love the exciting sensations it will create!
It’s warm, wet and fun! And that’s why we women (ahem, I) are such fans of steamy shower sex!