“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is”- Barbara Bush
It’s the same for girls. Except for the “bad” part. We like it to be done right. And we know you can do it. I for sure do, because if you’re here, reading my column, it means you want to improve your skill and blow her brains out the next time you oral her.
Oral sex is not only the perfect foreplay before making love, but also a practice completely satisfactory in itself, which can proportionate really intense orgasms. Like all sexual practices, it is a summary of affection, reciprocity, passion and love.
It can also lead too bland repetition, which can cause slow orgasm on her part and frustration for both of you. I know you’re all familiar with the traditional postures for cunnilingus, but how about some crazy ingenious ones for a change? Check them out bellow!
- The chariot of love. Leaning on her feet and palms, with her entire body mid-air, your girlfriend is sure working her abdominals! But that’s not the only thing she is doing. She is also focusing on orgasmic feelings, while you’re busy pleasuring her with your tongue and lips. Resting on your knees (or whatever position you find most comfortable), try and remain motionless and caress her clitoris on an on-going basis. Because her body is already tense from the position she’s in, she is not going to last long, so don’t worry about growing tired. This is the perfect position if you’re both in a hurry and want to get the maximum of pleasure in a minimum of time.
- The exercise lover. While she’s still positioned as described in the previous paragraph, you should be laying beneath her, with your head between her legs. Move your tongue to caress her labia, clitoris and vagina as she moves up and down. I love practicing this position because I can both work on my abs and tighten my buttocks therefore preventing the appearance of cellulite in a simple, effective and inexpensive way. So this is a win-win situation for your girlfriend: she is feeling intense pleasure, maintaining the forms of her body and saving a subscription to the gym!
- The reader. While she’s sitting on a side, with her feet slightly arched, deeply lost in reading a book, how about you surprise her with something a thousand times for exciting and explosive than the plot of that novel? Start by gently kissing her thighs than, if she’s not resisting you (and she won’t, trust me on that!), move on to her vagina. If the book she’s reading is erotic, than you’ll be giving life to her most secret hopes with your touching and licking. This position is ideal if you want her to be relaxed and happy.
- The leaning tower. While she’s resting on her back, with her knees brought to her chest, approach her laterally. Kissing her clitoris from a different angle than what she’s usually used to, you’re doubling the pleasure. If she’s really been a good girl and you want to award her with the best orgasm she’s ever had, try caressing her breasts with one hand, and inserting two fingers from the other hand into her vagina. You’re thus stimulating three main spots of her body: breasts, clitoris and vagina. If she’s into it, try inserting one of the fingers into her anus. There will be fireworks!
- The sleeping beauty. Or how to wake up in the most romantic atmosphere possible! If you haven’t tried going down on your girlfriend at dawn, you must definitely try it the next time you have the chance. As she begins to feel the warmth of your hands and the softness of your tongue on her clitoris, she’ll swear she is having the best dream of her life! When she will be finally fully awake (the orgasm is surely going to shake her up really good), she’ll be thanking you for the most perfect start of day. Set the alarm a few minutes before and give her the best waking call ever!
- The oral train. This position is very comfortable, it requires no effort on either side, and is also giving your woman an intense pleasure. While you’re quietly lying on your back on the bed or on the floor, tell her to kneel on your face and lay her sex over your mouth. Be careful though, in the heat of the moment she might not realize that she’s… suffocating you.
Have an exquisitely sensual week!
P.S. Play with more than one position per orgasm, the change will prolong her pleasure!