“Tantra embraces the natural energies of the bodies and connects you with cosmic, universal energy. It is becoming one with the other, and the very cosmos itself.” – Swami Nostradamus Virato
Ahhh tantric sex – for couples who are patient, extremely sexual and extremely open, it can be the most powerful intimate experience of your entire lives. Intended to help a couple to expand, to be free, and to be liberated, it involves channeling your energies and becoming one – in the process you’re able to enjoy the most incredible, mind-blowing, convulsion-inducing orgasms you’ve ever had, explore your most primal urges, and really connect on a whole new level.
Intrigued? I don’t blame you. The reason I know so much about this ancient ritual is because I was with a divorcee who used to practice tantric sex with his ex wife. We saw each off and on for almost six months, and it was hard to let him go after connecting with him so intimately. He was thorough, intense, and generous between the sheets, and if often took me nearly an hour to stop my legs from shaking after one of our marathon lovemaking sessions.
So let’s look at how tantric sex will improve your sex life.
It will bring you together
Because the very foundation of tantric sex is experiencing an openness and vulnerability, forcing you to forget about your inhibitions, tantric sex can help you to connect with one another, both in and outside the bedroom. It may be a little awkward at first (one of the first exercises you should practice is just staring into each other’s eyes in silence), but once you get past that initial discomfort, you’ll find yourselves on a new plateau.
While tantra can heighten sensations during sex, it can also help you deal with disagreements, stress, and boredom in the relationship. Once you feel this new chemistry with your spouse, you’ll find yourself communicating in a healthier way as well as looking at things differently.
It will make you more confident
When you and your partner are able to engage in slow, passionate tantric sex, you’ll find that your inhibitions fade into the background and you’re able to act more freely behind closed doors. This new-found freedom can be a major confidence boost. Not only will you find that you’re more willing to show your vulnerable side during sex but you’ll also walk with your head held higher knowing that you can make a woman’s eyes roll into the back of her head for hours.
Sex in general will be (much) better
Learning the principles of tantra takes some time, but once you’ve got them down-pat, you won’t know how you enjoyed sex before it. Both men and women who practice tantric sex have experienced deeper, longer orgasms as well as multiple, compounded orgasms to boot! Similarly, men who engage in this sex ritual learn more about their physical responses and hence can “train” themselves to last longer or be able to go for several rounds of romping in one session.
It will help you focus on the present
Forget about the meeting that went sour at work or your son who keeps getting in trouble in school – tantric sex forces you to be in “the now,” to focus on the present without any outside distractions. You’ll welcome the sexy diversion.