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Sexy ways to use a vibrator with your partner

Sexy ways to use a vibrator with your partner

Recent studies have found that more and more couples are willing to try out these buzzy toys in new and exciting ways that bring pleasure for both partners. Old-school thinking was that guys ran for the nearest exit whenever a woman pulled out a vibrator during sex – the theory being that it freaked you out to have another “package” in the room. Thankfully, that’s not really accurate anymore. And if you’re one of those dudes that are open to the awesome sensations a vibe can bring, I’m spilling here the best tips for using one with your partner.

Buzz it on yourselves before you strip down

Lay in bed, turn the vibrator on, and rub it all over your bodies BEFORE you take all your clothes off. Start at your knees, run up your inner thighs and circle it around her lady parts and the bulge in your pants. This way you’ll both get comfortable with the feeling. If you’re still hesitant about incorporating a toy into sex, start off even slower, by using a vibrating ring – a silicone toy you can slip around your penis and which has a tiny vibrator attached. The pulsing will feel awesome at the base of your penis, and if you are on top, it will hit your partner’s clitoris as you thrust.

Start on a slow setting

Use only the tip to circle her nipples and then give it to her so that she can do the same with yours. As you circle, turn up the speed gradually. Alternate between the vibrator and sucking her nipple (she should do the same to you). The back and forth and the heat of your mouths and lips will definitely feel amazing.

Turn it up full throttle

You can use it also on the shaft of your penis – it isn’t so sensitive, so you can handle it without problems. This is actually a great move, especially if you move it up one side of your package and down the other. This way, you are stimulating your entire penis, which makes you extra-hard and able to last for longer. You can also wrap it in your partner panties to lessen the sensation and hold it against your boys while she fondles your shaft. Your testicles can’t take very much stimulation, so the muffled shaking is right.

During oral

This is perhaps my favorite move of all. Your partner should hold the side of the vibrator against her cheek as she takes you in and out. Her wet, quivering mouth will feel unexpected and arousing for you. But don’t forget to return the favor in the same hot way. When you’re busy licking and sucking on her clitoris, use the vibe on her nipples and then on her labia. Another expert trick: while you’re using your tongue to pleasure her, put the vibrator inside her angled slightly toward her belly button – that way, you will hit her G-spot (that spongy, dime-sized area about 2 inches inside a woman that is pleasure-packed with nerves). The combo of stimulation will make for an incredibly intense orgasm!

Take total control of the toy

And use it on her during penetration. Here’s a position that opens her up for you: Lie on your back and have her get on top (reverse cowgirl). She should also lie so that her back is against your chest. The entire front of her body is thus revealed, and you can reach around and trail the vibrator from her breasts to her clitoris.

Your perineum

This small patch of skin between your balls and anus is super sensitive. Pick up a small, egg-shaped vibrator (putting anything bigger near your booty might freak you out), and whip it up while she is on top. As she rides you, give it to her and ask her to reach behind and hold it against that particular area.

Hot kisses,

Gabrielle Moore

P.S. For more tips and tricks on how to incorporate naughty sex toys into your sensual repertoire, check out my program: Lusty Vibrations.

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